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Walking Away

Right now, I'm deciding if I want to walk away from the relationship with my boyfriend. Not just not being a couple, I'm talking about being totally free of him. The way it is now is crazy, i'm not fully understanding where this whole moment of ignorance is coming from. Personally I dont think I did anything wrong to him, we haven't argued except about him. Last Sunday we were suppose to hang out at my house or go out and do something but Friday he called and cancelled our plans so he can go hang out with his friends from his school. I hate his one particular friend for a whole list of reasons but that's another story. I, of course, got mad at him but later that night I told him I didn't want to go to bed mad and that I didn't mind if he went with his friends. Saturday, I didn't speak to him at all and Sunday we didn't talk either. This upset me because he already cancelled our plans and then he doesn't even call or text me. He called on Monday night and said he was sorry. A few day before this happened we had a very odd conversation. I was getting the idea that he was using me and only wanted to be with me because of the sex. It seemed every time we saw each other we always had sex, no matter where we were it always happened. He reassured me that wasn't the case and the solution was to just stop having sex. Now I really think he is because now we hardly ever talk. I'm sorry but i'm not going to walk around and act like everything is okay when most of the time I am at home crying my eyes out. When I say something about the way he treats me he just ignore me and doesn't text me back. I just dont understand him. Right after you say we'll stop having sex then its like I fell off the face of the earth and your not even concerned. What am I suppose to think?? I love him with all of my heart but I will not act like i'm fine about all of this. Nobody deserved to be accused of being "crazy" and told to "relax" when their getting their heart broken more and more everyday. I talk to my best friend everyday and I know she gets tired of me crying all the time. I'm tired of being lied to and being treated like i'm nothing. At one time he called me his world. Well, it looks like he just destroyed his world. This is tearing me up because he is the one I love and care about and he is treating me just like everybody else in my life. I will not be stupid and foolish, not even for him. I will not smile when inside i'm dying. I will not be used, hurt and left to sit there and cry. Walking away from him will be hard. The letters, the jewelry, the teddies, the texts, the phone calls, the words, the presents..the love. I'm walking away from the pain and the tears because I deserve more. Three years and it comes to this. Lost the love of my life, my dream, and my world. What am i walking away from??