ok so heres my opinion you may or may not agree but this is what i think....
 
i believe that if you are going to make the decision to have sex and should you get pregnant you should take full responsibilites for that child and take care of it. i think that you should have a clear understanding that you made the decision yourself and this is your job now....children are full time jobs....so you should put this child first...if that means getting a full time job...then so be it..i mean if you can get help from parents, family or friends then thats great. but you cannot dump your responsibility on your parents. this goes a long with abortion to ... if you have sex then you shouldn't have an abortion its your responsibility to have that child. i mean there are things you can get to help you...if you don't abuse the help you can get it....WIC (women infants and children) theres food stamps and theres always adoption. children need their parents....they need them around all the time...they need this to feel that they are loved... how are you supposed to show your child/ren that you love them all the time if you dump them off at their grandmothers house to go buy a bottle of alcohol....

I've been living with my dads mom for 8 years now. My mother currently lives with her boyfriend...in the same city but is still not that much in our lives. Shed rather be with a bottle of alcohol then her 3 kids. My father (50)   whom lives with us, barely ever has a job....either always getting "laid" off or the company "folds" constantly. And then when he is off working its in another town...somewhere i've never heard of. My father and don't really have a great relationship. We always have nice words to say when we pass in the hall but other than that its nothing there.

i'd thought that if i'd shared a little bit about my situation with my family so you'd understand where my opinion comes from. BUT at the top if you notice that i always said if it was YOUR decision to engage in sex. Rape by all means is one of the worst things that could ever happen and if a child were to result from it i wouldn't blame anyone for an abortion... i wouldn't want my child to grow up a bastard child.