lol, I thought I was alone on this opinion. No worries, you're not alone here :) I share the same opinions with you too.

Personally, I prefer a cup of tea served in a china cup and a slice of home made fruit cake - very satisfying! Lol

I was thinking early this morning about humorous sayings applied to nudity etcetera. So I made up a joke 'Two porn stars sitting opposite each other and the male says to the female if I show you mine you show me yours. OK then, she replies. At which point they go to there respective wardrobes and put there clothes on'. Fashion show of course.

PS: you are not alone

i agree...i so agree..that i put on a shirt before commenting here...

hehe

I also agree,there should be a little bit of mystery to it all.Anticipation is part of the enjoyment.

mystery sounds good everything you said is true some people all they think about is sex wheres the heart i'll say :0) more love

Huh? Sorry, I had to leave a porn site to comment here.... LOL (j/k!!!) :D

First, you are *never* boring, Lana and yes, mystery and imagination DOES go a long way! You my friend, happen to be normal... well, my idea of normal at least. :)

HUGS!
xxx :)

Michelle -- You are not different. I'm in total agreement with you on this topic. Last week, on my dating site, a man sent me the key to his private showcase. When I viewed his photo he was standing in his bathroom shirtless. Later he asked me what I thought of the photo. I told him being a somewhat old fashioned girl, who adores the manners and customs of the Victorian era, I would have preferred he put a shirt on for his photo shoot, as I feel a bit of mystery -- in regard to what's underneath -- goes a long way. I ended by saying in viewing his photo I noticed the tile behind him was the same as in my bathroom.

I would consider it an answer to prayer if I could find a man who wouldn't be opposed to letting me curl up next to him for a hour. The closeness and warmth of another human being tops any sexual encounter in my book. Outstanding post. I love how you bravely articulate and speak out on issues. Bravo!!!!! Hugs, Love & Peace.

I get this, really I do!!! Overthehill is spot on... tea and fruitcake!

Lana:
I think that clothes do make the man or woman. A little
mystery in our sexual appetite is a good thing. I think that
there is nothing more provocative than a woman who lets my
imagination run on a little bit...Ya know what I mean?

I don't think you are different or boring at all. I think that
most women would prefer good old fashioned cuddling over hot
sex any day. I give ya a lot of kudos for expressing your opinion here.
funnyman

Okay, I may be weird here but yes, I like the mystery of not seeing it all at once but then again, a male stripper, dang girl at my age, gotta love it lol.

As far as sex over-rated, I suppose that would depend on who you are with and if you have the privacy to focus on each other - Nah, not over rated heheh.

Ok, I am blushing, Love ya girl xoxoxo

Okay! now this is coming from a mature woman with 34 years of marriage under her belt. Sex over-rated? I guess the he-- it is! If being woken up at 5:00 in the morning (every morning)for a 15 minute thrill is an umbelievable experience than it isn't over-rated but who the he-- would agree with that? As far as the male anatomy, I fail to see how all of that loose appendage is attractive, much better in boxer shorts or bvds, lol! Funny thing how men encourage women to get surgery when her appendages start going south and yet their appendages fo south all of their lives with the exception of an occasional visit north, if you know what I mean, lol!

Sex? What is sex?? lol I think it was something that I had in my past life .. so many years ago!

there have been some great moments like the time...dam phone...Puck

Well... :) I for one happen to enjoy lovemaking, flirting and sex with the right person! I also believe that a little mystery/seduction is a must, though. They say that sex is 99% in the brain, but I personally think that number is a little high :) and I still like tea!