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Some guys act like they are doing the dating thing but are just looking for a hook-up. This behavior exposes his true intentions.
He Treats You Like One Of The Guys -If he's making explicit comments or telling raunchy jokes, he could be testing whether you're willing to connect on a sexual level. Thus, he may not plan on working to reach boyfriend status.
You don't bond in person -Electronic communication is a way of life; but a man who's looking to date will call you and have meaningful conversation face to face too.
He's charming..........repeatedly -A guy who retells ancedotes or gives you the same compliments as he did on your last date could be on autopilot. That connection you thought you made may be anact he uses to get chicks into bed.
You usually stay in - Chilling on the couch may seem sweet but be suspicous if he's not taking you out. Being seen with you could ward off other women, so if you two don'y socialize in public, it may be that he doesn't want to be seen as taken.
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Posted by meka1021 on 2008-05-29 01:40:34 | Rating: | Views: 471
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Always negative about men. They aren't all the same.
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Posted by southernsun
on 2008-05-29 07:55:23
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Interesting... My question, woman to woman, is why would any woman date a man in whom she has no sexual interest & feels no sexual attraction? And why would you want a man for a boyfriend when you have no idea whether or not the 2 of you are sexually compatible. (And, Honey, the only way to find out whether you're sexually compatible with a man or not is to have sex with him.) Women who truly don't like sex and have absolutely no interest in it --even with a man who is unattached, polite, respectful, clean, and your "type" whatever that may be: cute, handsome, built, short, tall, whatever...) shouldn't date. Period. I mean: what's the point? As far as men "getting women into bed" how is that possible? I always know from the minute I meet a man if he's my type physically (most men are not my type--I'm very picky). After an hour of conversation, I know if I want to have sex with him or not (i.e. he must be polite, respectful (which doesn't mean that he can't tell sexual jokes or stories--I WANT a man who acts like a MAN--not a gay friend;) rather it means that he can't tell mean spirited misogynistic jokes or stories jokes involving violence/abuse toward women. Also, he cannot put down other women in my presence--calling his exes "sluts, tramps etc." I'm an adult woman--not a high school kid--I like erotic humor and even some dirty jokes. Good grief. This isn't the 1950's! Bottom line: I would NEVER date a man to whom I felt no sexual attraction. Unless it was a blind date. In that case, if the guy just titally turned me off, I'd make some polite excuse, and end the date immediately. To waste the man's time would be unfair to him; to waste my time would be unfair to me. No man could talk me or get me into bed unless i wanted to go there in the first place. Good grief!
PS I don't knwo about boys faking romance, but any girl who fakes an orgasm (unless she's getting paid to do so is an idiot. She's only hurting herself.
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Posted by venicevajajay
on 2008-06-15 03:06:28
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