Mazz ive tried, it can work if the lad is mature enough. But obv sometimes it cant work out. He obviously sounds jealous and regrets giving you up or its a fact of i cant have you nobody else can. If he wants to be childish about it then its his fault. He shouldt have ended it if he knew he'd regret it in the long run.
Like that dude from where i work " we can be good friends i promise" we hardly talk.
But he was never mature enough to handle a friendship i was though.
Just if you feel the same about him later on and when he has calmed down, talk maybe it'll work out again.
Kix
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I do agree that is a difficult situation. The person that commented first is right though, about the fact that it is hard to be friends after a breakup. Most guys really aren't mature enough for that kind of thing. A lot of them say that they want to be friends, but it doesn't usually work out that way. I think that most of the time it is an " upper hand " situation. They want to think that they have the upper hand. A lot of times it is the guy who says the lets be friends statement. Then when they see that you have moved on then they tend to lose that upper hand. Basically we call their bluff.It doesn't always happen that way though. In fact I went out with a guy a few months ago and ended up breaking up with him. He said that we would always be friends, but now he blows me off. So it does work both ways I guess. Also, the guy that I was with on and off for 3 years, we absolutely can not be friends. What I can say is that, make your decision on what your most comfortable with. If you are at peace with not being friends then go with that. Or vice versa. If you still don't know then it never hurts to pray. Hand it over to God, be patient, and go from there. I hope that I was able to help you. Good luck.