Human Nature, It is human nature to want to desire, but at what extremes do some humans go to acquire their desires?
All to often it is total selfishness, no regard to how their actions may affect others.  The closer the individula the more pain inflicted.
Why?
It is said we hurt the ones we love.  This is the truest statment.  But why do we hurt the ones we love?
Simply put, wihout any emotional attachment, there is no pain to be felt.  Just another individual showing their colors.
But when we have feelings for them, ie..relative, spouse, significant other, our actions have a direct impact on them whether it be physical, emotional, spiritual or other.  Material can also come into play as the thief in the night that takes what they will.

The question is why do people do things that will no doubt cause pain and turmoil to their loved ones.
Is it purly selfishness?  Once caught they apologize, feel remorse yet the thoughts of this happening did not sway them from doing whatever they do.

This makes absolute no sense and always ends up causing problems, grief and turmoil.

More so why do the ones that are affected by the behavior stay around and expect more from less?

Or do they move on and leave the mess behind and start new?

We are all individuals that respond differently to same situations, Can we accept this or do we feel the need to attack and defend against the hurt one?
Forever twisting and turning words, situations to bring ourselves to be the innocent one?

Boggling to me.  This is not my M/O  never has been nor ever will be,  Yet I seem to draw this type of individual into my life.  Why?  ahh dunno,  yet!
Am I so transparent that others see me as easy prey?..Is it my words that convey the tenderness within leaving me open to attack, manupulation?

I have heard, dont you get it?  get what?  People are mean and cruel and give no thought as to their actions?
I get it.....but do I rule out helping others, becoming bitter therefore a miserable hateful individual> I think not!

I stand firm on my beliefs,  In every life session there is a lesson,  To live and to be.
There is a reason for every season, as in life there is a reason for the path we take.
Once lived, one must learn.  Without the learning, repetition begins,  To continue with equal results and expecting different is the definition of insanity.
I know not where life is aking me on this journey, I do know I am off the merry go round and full speed ahead.

Join me on the highway paved for the few.