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4:43 pm--
My love and I have been together for nearly 4 months now.. and we have been having sex for a month. Its not on a regular basis, but we still do. My parents dont want me to have sex.... They also dont know that i am having sex.. i have explained this in a previous post. My Love hates to use condoms.. he cant stand them. he says that he cant enjoy sex with them because he has to think too much, and sometimes it makes him " disinterested". ( if you catch my drift) He wants me to start taking the pill. I would, but i have two problems. One, i have no steady income of cash to spend on the pill. And second, how i would i keep it from my parents. The past few times, he has been pulling out.. but i still get so nervous.. When it gets close to my cycle, i start to panic, waiting for my period to come. I dont want to continue having a nervous breakdown every month.... I want to be able to enjoy sex, but i cant without knowing i wont be pregnant... A part of me want to tell him to suck it up and to always wear a condom... or no sex.... but that is going to put a huge strain in the relationship... This is so frustrating.
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Posted by lusochick on 2008-01-29 19:53:45 | Rating: | Views: 129
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Go to the health clinic! It's little to NO cost...
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Posted by otherwoman
on 2008-01-29 20:02:25
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Explaining to your parents that you are having sex is better than telling them your pregnant. Condoms dosn't stop any intimate feelings. Tell him to bag it or get used to changing diapers.
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Posted by theotherjim
on 2008-01-29 23:47:27
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or you can tell him to deal with it and wear a rubber....its not cool to chance you getting pregnant just cause he dont like it and a relationship shouldnt be strained cause of you telling him that
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Posted by copenhagenblk69
on 2008-01-30 17:46:51
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