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Happy fucking friday people! Much love and respect to Easy2Say for keeping the tradition we got going on here....thanks again...your the best and remember people, no matter who you are, you all deserve a happy fucking friday, don't take the cursing to heart, there's no harm being done here...just a bunch of crazy kids excited for the weekend...
ok, I got a question for all you people...about a month ago, my uncle crashed on his motorcycle, hitting his head on the pavement and cracking his helmet. He cracked a couple ribs but most of the damage was done to his brain. He lost some of his memory. When he woke up, he thought it was 1985. This is before he met the woman he's been having an affair with for 15 years. He had just told his wife about the affair before the accident, she was devastated. But now, he has no recollection whatsoever of the affair, and everything with his wife is back to "normal." So the question is, should his wife tell him about the affair he was having, wait for him to remember or not say anything at all if his memory doesn't come back? What would you do?
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Posted by LuckyLuci on 2008-06-26 21:42:27 | Rating: | Views: 158
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i think she should smack him upside the head and see if that refreshes his memory:)
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Posted by pitapie50
on 2008-06-26 21:45:55
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Awwww gawd Luci .. This isn't a HFFP question.... this is a WOW question of the Day block buster.
I would say, it would depend on whether his wife forgave him and wanted to stay with him.
If she does it's her chance to have a SECOND chance with him.
My mum had a brain trauma and there are things she doesn't remember 10 years later still.
So if she can start again with him, and not feel the need to raise his cheating then they could live well together.
But if she can't get over it, she may need to tell him.
Actually if I was her, I'd never be able to trust him again, and I'd always think even if he didn't remember that one, then there is a chance that he is capable of doing it again!
Hmmmm what does the mistress think? Is she going to try to rekindle?
Gosh... tough one.
Me - I wouldn't have gone to the hospital if foty was there.... I'd stand outside and send the kids in.
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-06-26 21:55:59
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Happy fucking friday everyone! Yeeeyhaaaarh! Have a great one!
Mmmmmm......in answer to your question, if it was me I would have to tell him. I couldn't live a lie or forget what I knew....what if one day he remembers it too? Then there's betrayal on both sides, albeit different betrayal , more like a lack of truth.....am I making any sense here?
Oh I think my brains already left for the weekend........enjoy everyone :)
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Posted by Kaybee
on 2008-06-26 22:41:06
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bring this mo fo in!!!! welcome to the HFFP!!! and its rightful place in luci's blog!! FUCK YEAH!! HAPPY FUCKING FRIDAY!!!!!
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Posted by tonyrayhutchison
on 2008-06-26 23:38:59
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and I have know clue what to do in the case of your uncle. I didnt want all the cussing and merry makin in the same comment as my response to that part. anywho, thats a toughy and I have no clue how to handle it.
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Posted by tonyrayhutchison
on 2008-06-26 23:42:22
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Ahhh LUCI... I forgot to say
HAPPY
FUCKING
FRIDAY
YAY ....
LUCI's BACK ...
FUCKING GREAT!!
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-06-27 07:08:10
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Happy fucking Friday..... and I have no clue!!
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Posted by DouglasMB
on 2008-06-27 07:16:15
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Well, we are just FULL of fooking(yes, I said fooking instead:P haha)good answers. Like there's an F stuck in our brains this morning:) You don't like that? Then fook you!:P
My answer would be that you classify it "touch and go". A better question might be "When will the affair-ee come into the picture wondering why he hasn't been with her/contacted her". THEN, he might have a slap to the cerebellum when he remembers. But, touch and go...I'd take a day at a time and try to get back to living normally(if that's possible when you think Michael J. Fox is the coolest thing on a skateboard:P). If it comes up, deal with it then and maybe explain to him that perhaps this was God's way of saying "don't do that again".
Maybe have him play Earth Angel on guitar:P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-06-27 09:38:36
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HFF luci....i gotta agree with E2S. If she wants to start over fresh with him this is her chance...however...I dunno if I could knowing that he's done it once before would he do it again....that's a rough one!!!
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Posted by Mamacita925
on 2008-06-27 14:30:55
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For real? hmmm, it depends, if they (he and wife) are getting along, and still married, the affaire' is still an outsider, she, the wife if she honors her marriage, doesn't need to do something potentially subversive to the marriage. And he, married doesn't owe her,the other, another opportunity to mess it up. He had time to make a change if he had wanted to. Put it differently, say, he has been gambling away thier income every payday, and now he forgot he used to do that, does she tell him he forgot to gamble this week?
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Posted by circe
on 2008-06-27 17:19:04
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Happy fucking friday people! and thank you all for your comments...very interesting...:) I want to know if the mistress will contact him, we will see...
Mamacita, i gotta come by, i can't wait to read about the wedding :)
brainstormer: great to see you! :) and fook you too :P
circe, wow...great comment. one of your comments, on someone else's blog has been on my mind all day, i gotta find it...:)
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Posted by LuckyLuci
on 2008-06-27 18:02:35
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LuckyL? Please:P...no, really. Meet me in back, ssh! o)_o)...(o_(o...:P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-06-27 23:47:12
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brainstormer, I knew there was a reason why I wore a skirt today? :P I know this is very bad of me, but I couldn't help myself...:)
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Posted by LuckyLuci
on 2008-06-28 23:05:18
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