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OMG I was delusional!!!!!!!!!!! (posted in
Through Sliding Doors )
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I ended a 'friendship' tonight, not completely at this point but it may as well be.
There are so many points to your story that I could relate to again and again. The main difference is I was in a relationship with him and after a few months it ended but we continued and as friends (amongst other things - Stuuuuupid) and in the end it had me feeling shamefully desperate, low stamped apon and spat on too... I was constantly in search of 'our truth' and yes there is a point where that truth doesn't matter anymore, and it's like you said... when that truth isn't going to change anything - thats when you can and have to let go. But sometimes it can show it's self long before that point.
The problem with chasing the truth is that it can provoke a kind of mental torture and paranoia (one that I know only too well and have been living with for about 6 months now) Looking back this guy wasn't even my type, he charmed me and he was/is VERY good at it but most importantly, looking back there were also signs way back then... because even when things we 'good' I was searching for the truth! If I have learned anything from this, it's to listen to and trust your own instincts. The longer you search for the truth, the more it blurs into a mushy mess of what you have been fed by the person in question and what you feel is real, the more you know, the less you know and the more confused you get which leads you to wanting more answers. I don't know about you... but I became obsessed with it! Looking back on other friendships or relationships I didn't get a desire or need to find the truth and now I think thats because we were living it, so if I ever get that uneasy feeling constantly arise like I did with him... 'THAT' I now believe is your truth speaking to you and I will listen to it. Since I have been at this site I have had 2 relationships and one potential love interest end. All 3 ended in totally different ways. The first vanished, no goodbye.. nothing, we were together 7 months. the 2nd (my rebound) after one weekend together we knew it wasn't what we wanted. He told me straight up, no it's not something I want to persue but I'd really like to be friends. It was so matter of fact that I told him he may as well have said "would you like fries with that?" and the 3rd... well that was a 2 month relationship that streched on for another 4 months, 6mths in total! I am still great friends with my rebound, with no mental anguish or head games I would have to say the best way to end anything is "Would you like fries with that?" (posted in
What is the Best Way to End a Friendship?)
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Hehe... "I didn’t like her because she liked the real me which I didn’t like but she did." - therefore she must be weird or something... lol.
Nice and funny are AWESOME!!!
I sure hope nice guys get what they deserve, I hope nice girls do to :o) (posted in
Not So Ordinary)
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