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"Let's make a baby," he said to me this morning. Is he serious? Of course not. We're not ready to be parents. We realised that last year. Well... at least, HE's not ready to be a father anyway. I could be wrong. Having children changes your life. I think he would make a great father. I'm just not sure if this is the right time. I might be surprised though. Let's think positively.
I had coffee with a couple of girl friends today. One of them had her 2-month-old baby with her. What a gorgeous sight her little girl is!
I realised today that I'm ready to have a child. It's funny how spending a couple of hours with an infant can make one go clucky. I just wish that I had the ideal situation to bring a child into.
It sucks because my heart and body says YES! but my bank account says NO, NOT YET!
Having and bringing up a child can be quite expensive. I don't want to have a child on my own. I always envisioned that I would be married to the father and we would be financially stable. Funny how life doesn't always work out the way you want it to.
But... there was no doubt about it today. My biological clock is ticking and it's ticking LOUD!
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Posted by lostbutterfly on 2008-01-15 23:59:53 | Rating: | Views: 93
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There was something I once heard, if you wait until you are financially ready to have a child ... you will never have one.
I had one child, and honestly I was done. I got baby-itis and decided it was time, and financially it wasn't the greatest time to do so. It was the best thing I ever did. My child, loves the baby, and I do to. I love it so much. I'm glad I took the plunge. Sometimes I have to be careful not to just go hog wild at Walmart, etc. but that is ok. The smile, and hugs, make it all the more worthwhile. I wish you the best in whatever you decide. The gift of a child's love is more rewarding than words will ever be able to describe. Good luck.!
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Posted by tech4Him
on 2008-01-16 00:07:43
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I feel the same sometimes, a baby is the one thing i want more than anything. I feel pregnant once to my ex so easily and he was an arsehole and i was only young so we didnt go through with it, but i find a man i love and for 3 years we got nothing.
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Posted by MissThinks2Much
on 2008-02-05 02:26:11
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