I may have been hasty with my earlier post. He has made contact with the girls and has made arrangements to take them out over the weekend. We even had a bit of a chat and I explained how they were feeling. he hadnt realised. he said he didnt want to unsettle them by making contact randomly. Anyway to cut a long story short he will now make some kind of contact each day.

I know now that this is as hard for him as it is for us and we have agreed that for the sake of our precious girls we will not fight