View Blog    started on this site for privacy i have a myspace, but everyone i know reads it including my husband. i just ned a little advice on a jealousy issue. my husband has a friend at work that is a girl. and i can't help but to feel that something might be going on. he tells me over and over again that nothing is, but i just can't lead myself to believe it. i just want to trust him, and i don't know how, if someone could help me, i would greatly appreciate it.     Posted by lost_soul on 2007-08-21 17:50:43 | Rating: | Views: 98     Email This to a Friend Friend's Email *    Friend's Name*    Your Name*    Security code*    Refresh Image                 Print This Blog Post     Bookmark: Delicious  Digg  Reddit  Facebook  StumbleUpon    Permalink:      Blog Comments    do you have any reason not to trust him based off of past experiences? Posted by  jason  on 2007-08-21 18:03:23     hi lost! jealousy is a hard one! you just have to tell yourself to let it go and actually do it. i had the issue years ago it destroyed one relationship. i told myself after that 'never again'. and i didn't. so there. let it go. let your trust win out if that is what you want. good luck! :o) Posted by  badlydrawnstickman  on 2007-08-21 18:41:35     Trust is a serious issue. Do you believe that he loves you? I left my husband for a year, and while we were apart he had a relationship with a woman at work. He broke it off with her when I decided to go home. He still works with her. I feel a touch of jealousy and I wonder if there is still anything there. I deal with it this way. If he wants her, he can have her. I told him just that and I meant it. Living life is possible without him. If he is going to cheat, I do not want him anyway. Plus, I believe him when he tells me that he loves me. The rest is up in the air. I love and trust him, until he gives me a reason not to. Good luck with that war in your mind. It can be won. Posted by  DifficultSoul  on 2007-08-22 00:41:44  Would you like to comment?     (Maximum characters: 5000)     You have characters left.      Security code:                                                     Refresh Image

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