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Top 16 Regrets:
1) Not letting myself live to the fullest as a teenager
2) Letting other people get to me
3) Thinking that my "friends" were really looking out for my own good
4) Smoking just so that I can get attention
5) Letting one of my guy friends put his hands down my pants
6) Lying to my parents
7) Not putting my best effort into all that I did
8) Not showing my grandfathers that I loved them so much
9) Not saying "I love you" enough
10) Being afraid to express my feelings when I was younger
11) Pulling my sisters' hair during one of my parties, thinking it would make the "popular" kids like me
12) Having my first drink
13) Cutting my arms to find comfort in the thick flow of the blood that followed
14) Giving my parents a hard time just so that they would feel sorry for me and give me some attention
15) Pushing people away just so that I would never have to get in touch with my emotional side
16) Not slapping my cousin when she constantly tried choking me when the grown-ups weren't paying attention

Top 16 reaons to let go of the things I regret:
1) Can't change the past, only learn from it
2) Regretting doesn't help you grow, it just builds a wall between you and growth
3) I was young, and many people go through such things
4) Holding onto the past is stopping my growth for the future
5) The people that hurt me are long gone, so it shouldn't matter any more
6) The people I've hurt have probably forgotton all about it, it's been ages
7) I'm sure my family and my grandfathers know that I love them. I'm sure my grandfathers are looking out for me now that they're gone
8) If it wasn't for my mistakes, I wouldn't be who I am today
9) I never hurt anyone physically, so it's okay...I think.
10) If I don't let go of all the things that I regret, I may drive myself over the cliff
11) I should make room for development and the expectancy of more regrets to come my way, can't hold on to the old ones for too much longer now
12) I love everyone, and I am beginning to love myself...the more I think about my regrets, the less likely my "love" will grow
14) I can still better myself and let myself live to the fullest now...I still have the opportunity to go crazy and get the attention that I want, if I really still wanted it
15) It's either the regrets go, or I go...I'd prefer the regrets, I still have a long way to go
16) It's never too late...

Top 10 things I wish were different:
1) The way I look, I wish I had a smaller buttocks
2) The way I approach people, I can seem cool and collected but I'm a bit too honest which drives people away
3) The way I need so much "alone time"
4) The way I know I should be doing something, but I still don't do it
5) The way I push people away, whether intentionally or not
6) The color of my eyes, I wish they were a shade lighter
7) The darkness under my eyes, it makes everyone give me a weird look when they first meet me
8) I wish I had more courage to stand up for myself and the things I believe
9) I wish I wasn't afraid of people, of individuals I would think were "friends"
10) I wish I had a talent of some sort

Top 10 things I am forever grateful:
1) My family
2) My friends (no matter how rare they are to find)
3) My life
4) The path that I have walked so far and the path I will be walking later on in life
5) The courage for going on
6) The ability of making the most of what I have, no matter how little I may have
7) The ability to appreciate the "small" things in life which other people tend to overlook
8) My religion
9) My culture
10) My family (I repeated this one on purpose)