thanks for the offer of friendship- gladly. there is truth in this- a secret kept to prevent emotional damage is certainly allowable- but a secret kept just to prevent an undesirable outcome usually gets revealed eventually- and then the damage is greater. I'm not sure about forever- but the God I follow does often keep things "blessedly blurred"- because we would misuse the knowledge- often dangerously.

I like the forever secrets the best. I like the feeling of being trusted more than I like being seen as someone who knows something.

This is an interesting definition. And quite appropriate if you were me. :)
Ya Dokta x

Secrets secrets are no fun unless they're shared with everyone.

When someone shares a secret with me no matter if it is trivial or extremely important, I feel blessed that someone has that must faith and trust in me to believe that I would keep the secret to myself unless given permission to share.

Gee, thanks for the dictionary segment:P

What's next? Something from the letter T?:P

Sign up for my Alphabet Soup Challenge.

Are you just collecting as many "friends" as you can? 114? And, you have talked to all of them before adding them? Really. Well, you haven't spoken to me yet.

Two things: first off some things are best kept untold and second ignorance is bliss.

I will be your friend. Thank you for the friendship invitation..
If someone tells me a secret or confides in me that stays with me..If it doesn't stay with me I would lose the individuals trust and respect.

Yes you explained that in full. Secrets can cause pain and build trust also.

ohh...so that's what secret is...






mmm......

thank you

I think keeping any kind of secrets isn't good , because what if it is about a friend or some one you really care about .

The Torah says: Dueteronomy 29:29 KJV

The secret things belong unto the LORD our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children for ever, that we may do all the words of this Law.

Thank you for the friend invitation. Well as far as a general outlook on secrets you pretty much have it covered. :)


-Mango-

thank you for wanting to be my freind.
i think it is best to live your life as
an open book,because when you have secrets there is always a chance that
they will become known and used against you.
i think the Father wants us to live a truthful life,
but there is a time for everything.


bless you.
butterflylove
SOMETIME IT IS BEST TO KEEP THINGS TO YOURSELF AND ALLOW GOD TO HANDLE THEM.:)

o helloooooooooooo
liza hw r u
i knw m nt commenting on ur blog
i wana say thanks to u 4 being my frnd
also plzz tell me hw to chat here!!!
mere blog pe comment to dalna
:)
are yaar ye security code har baar entry karna padta hai kya offf!!!

heyyyyyyyyyyy
how can we talk yaar
i see u being online on IM
but u do no reply..

how to get ur attention
plzzz say
write in my blog

nw m leaving
will c u soon
till keep smiling
take care
good nyt

Secrets are a way of trust, if kept a trust has been earned if told you have been violated.
So if you have something to share, share it with the one you trust, If you want to have it spread around tell it to a gossiper.

Lisa:
Few words written, yet a thousand truths revealed.
Very short post yet one that hits its mark.
Love your style of writing.

Secrets help you sort and find out who your true friends are. If they violate and tell the secret without your permission, they definitely weren't being a true friend.

Thanks for requesting to be added to my list! :)

Have a wonderful day! :)

Hi Lisa,
thanks for the friend request!
You are right about secrets, they can tear people apart or bring them together.
A very thought provoking post.

Secrets to be secrets should not be shared but once shared then it transforms and becomes freedom?