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i am so tired of my step dad he just kicked me agian because i forgot to fold his pants the right way and what was even worse my mom watched him hurt me!
i am so tired of being beat and my mom calling my REALLY hurt ful names and not having friend cuz of my family
it hurts
and i can't tell anyone because they might take him away and he is the person that gets all the money there are 6 ppl total that he pays for and i can't have him be taken out of the family
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wow that sounds absolutely awful. If you really want to get away from them maybe call the kids help line? I think you should deffinitly tell someone about this that can actually make it stop.
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Posted by smileforthecamera
on 2008-01-27 22:23:19
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the ones above are so right. i am 14 and i would not put up with that at all. just remember to keep strong. don't give in to abuse.
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Posted by Angel_Crank
on 2008-01-27 22:42:29
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Ive been there before...except I was 14 years old. So, I will tell you the consequences that could possibly come your way. My mom was physically abusive. A friend told a school counsellor and they called me in their office to talk to me. Afterwards it went down like this.
They called social services and I was assigned a social worker to my case that would stay open for the next two years. Which included a weekly school visit to see how things we're going at home which eventually turned into monthly visits with my social worker reading the newpaper for an hour while I did homework and go out of class.
But first immediately after social services were called....
1) They called my mother and told her of the allegations against her. I knew she would be mad and I was afriad of going home that day because I was afraid I would get the worst beating she had ever givin me so they put me in a rehab center for teens for "anger control management" until my mom and my courtdate because my mom told them I was an out of control teen and made ME look like the bad guy. Parents are usually good at flippin the script.
2 weeks later. I went to the court date, my mom was there. Judge asked me what I wanted and gave me the benefit of the doubt that I wasnt lying. She took me outsid eof the room and asked me in private, and I told her that my mom couldnt afford to not work and take care of my siblings so I didnt want her to go to jail... but she needed help. I told her I would agree to stay in a foster home until her mandatory parenting classes were completed. The judge said, "45 days". I said "deal".
I was in anger control management classes for 2 weeks at a rehab facility and a foster home for 45 days when I was released back into my mothers home. My mom never touched me again.
She knew my case would stay open for a while and that I could easily tell my "weekly visit" case worker at school if she did something wrong and THEN she would go to jail. So she never did. The I made to 18 years old. Thats all you have to do. Survive through it till you're 18. Then you're OUTTA there! Oh and your mom could use some "twice a week mandatory or you go to jail" parenting classes too! ;)
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Posted by W8nOn2morrow
on 2008-01-27 23:38:29
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By the way, I'm not saying do this. Because your situation im sure is different than mine. So it might not turn out the way you want it to and you could end up in a foster home till you're 18. And if you feel like you can live with staying there more than being in a foster home then be careful about what actions you take. The help for kids in abusive verbally or physically is broken and you might get lost in the shuffle. With the way your stepdad and mom sounds... it doesnt sound like they'd fight to get you back either.
Also, doing nothing about it isnt an option if you feel like your life is in danger.
PS: Some foster homes arent all they're cracked up to be. Trust me, Ive heard some stories about some even worse than at home foster homes during my 45 day ordeal so be very aware of what can happen. Luckily mine wasnt too bad except that they were religious amish people that wouldnt let me wear makeup and made me wear dresses and go to church... which I dont believe in. LOL but other than that...anyway Im rambling... I just want to write and let you know that you're not alone. There are a lot of teens in the same situation as you are right now.. and some like me that have went through the actions to rectify it.
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Posted by W8nOn2morrow
on 2008-01-27 23:52:58
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That's so awful. Is there a teacher of a friend you could talk to at school? Maybe they could help guide you in the right direction. I hope everything works out ok for you. God bless.
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Posted by ohmiigawsh
on 2008-01-28 06:37:37
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You need to act ASAP because this situation will not correct itself or go away. There are many people that need help & guidance and you need to act NOW!!
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Posted by MrT
on 2008-01-28 08:57:41
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Reading your blog, reminded me of myself. First thing is, is that you have to realise that shes hurting you more than your step dad is hurting you. Your step dad may be hitting you and kicking you. But your mom is letting this happen. Your mom could call the police, are simply pack and leave. Talking to people about it, isnt as easy as it seems and it may just make this more crazier. But it the end its worth it. Because 90% of the people who have been abused, abuse others when there older. If you really want to make a point to your mother, show her that if it happens again, she will lose you. See if that helps? If not and you dont want to change anything. You can always talk to me.
Hope everything works out.
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Posted by PhaymusShay
on 2008-01-28 14:15:09
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http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/
1 800 668 6868
Call them.
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Posted by Pinguin
on 2008-01-30 13:57:38
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