u got a bad egg out of the sea

bad egg isn't even the beginning of what that guy is... I would beat the crap out of him. It's assholes like him that make men like me look bad... I'm so sorry that happened to you. But do not take anything of what he said to heart.

If his love is abuse, you should definitely not be with him. Love is not abusing another's love and heart, I hope you will find the person one day that will love you truly without abuse and tricks. Stand up on your feet and go places! =) Good luck.