Running is not the answer. Life is fucking hard and it sucks sometimes but you can not run from it. Allow yourself to hurt it shows how good a person you really are. Nothing comes easy and you just have to learn that sometimes you do have to let go and sometimes you have to hang on. You will be ok no matter what. It is you life and decision. You might make the wrong one but learn from it. Welcome pain like you do happiness it makes you who you are and who you will become.

I often read without leaving a response and some times I just say "just checking in" with no opinion. So don't worry about it, also many times people come and go in my life. I just learn what I can, enjoy the time that we spend together and I keep moving forward in life. Don't let your heart be burdened by the things you can not control. Kaz when you are feeling down look for reason to be happy I'm sure you will find there are many more things to be happy about than to be sad about :)

D

K:
D is right. Look for the positive things that have happened in
your life and concentrate on those. Sometimes life throws us
curveballs and we just have to step up to the plate and keep
on swinging anyway. We're all here if you need to talk. Lean
our way...
funnyman

You have expressed well the thoughts and feelings in my heart. Relationships are a total disaster for me. I usually end up feeling abused, disrespected and taken advantage of by others. At the moment the "closed" sign hangs on the door to my heart. I possess enough self love not to put the things I'm working through and sensitive about on display in the thoughts store window for all to see and comment on. When we share our fears and struggles, with others, we literally hand them a loaded gun to use against us. I hope tomorrow finds you in better spirits. Hugs & Peace.

I am here too and will be sending you good vibes! Hugs, Gen

theranting
I try to allow myself to just go with it but sometimes I feel so bad inside. I agree with you that what life hands us many times makes us who we are.Thank you.

BigD
I didn't mean to mess up your questions. I'm sorry! I'll try and do better with the next ones. Thanks!

FM
I hate curveballs. I like them straight from the hip. I'll keep on trying. Thank you!

CD
You and I are cut from the same cloth I think. I now have the same sign on my heart. I get tired of being the stepping stone for ppl and then being told I didn't have enough stones. I hope tomorrow holds better things for both of us. Keep in touch. Hugs to you also.

Gen
I will be feeling those vibes. Thank you so much


K

I was just telling Gen last night that I don't know what to respond to some blogs at times, So I don't, if I like it I will just click the stars and leave.... I think everyone understands and if they don't, oh well... Just take care of you ok.

dumpling

dumpling
I think I'll do just that until I am up to par again and back to my old self. Thank you for understanding.

K

Super K,

I think ya just need a hug ... and a pinch on the behind to remind you that things aren't as bad as they seem when ya have a cute behind!

That is my own perverse brand of healing .... well sometimes it actually works ... at least when your the one doing the pinching ... it just now took my mind off of everything else!

*** HUGZ ***

- Thom

Thom
You can pinch all you want. Shall I turn around???
I'm so glad my behind took your mind off your problems.

SK

Karen, to answer the post is not everything that matters in ones life,not when you are feeling low,and somethimes its not very wise either to read them if and when you're down as they can bring you down further. don't worry about not making any comments on them I don't all the time,but when I see one that I know I can help yes I will answer just like now.Please don't leave as we your friends can be still hear to help you thro this time, and if you think by runnig away to where all you are doing is to still be taking the problem with you know matter where you run too,its still there, STAND and face it head on, you can beat it!!!! we all have things like this and with help from others we get thro it.We do need others to help us.
Can I suggest try to you to make time and read "Ephesians" you will find a lot of comfort there.
verse 18 "I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened ..............
God bless you Karen
Raymond

Hey Sweetie...No matter what you are going through, or no matter how tough it gets, remember, YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE ME, and chances are, I probably have been there, so I probably can relate. Trust me! There's not much I haven't gone through these days!
I love you Hun! I'm only a chat or phone call away!

raymond
Thank you so much and I will read the verse you suggested. I know 'this too shall pass' and I have to be patient. The problem is, I'm patient with everything and everyone else in my life.....except ME!

J
I have looked for you each night here. You're as elusive as the butterfly. I know you're always going to be there for me and it is such a wonderful thing to have in my heart. We've been through the mill,you and I, and I'm sure there is much more to be experienced. We'll talk soon....love you.


SK