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as yet another day starts i sit with my pot of coffee and a bagel and read blog after blog, catching up with old friends and deciding that some friends aren't worth having anymore. i am evolving for sure here. i've learned whats important to me and what i need for myself. i am a stroker. stroking is my private thingy. i like to use words. i like it when someone uses words with me too. i like it when someone uses pet names for me. i like when i'm asked "how was your day?" or "how are you?" and truly means it when they ask. i love it when my ego is nurtured, when i'm told i'm desirable or sexy. this is stroking, THIS IS STROKING! i am an audio person. i love the little noises that are made at intimate times. i also love the breathing, the eye contact, the things that lead up to the untimate act of love, lust or whatever you want to call it. i think foreplay begins hours earlier, and doesn't necessarily end up in the bedroom. it may just end up on the couch watching some dumb movie, or sneaking peeks while he does something across the room, or eating dinner together (be it mcdonalds or lobster and candlelite) playing footsy under the table. stroking to me is nurturing each others ego, manhood or womanhood, making them feel like a million bucks long before it even gets sexual. people can do that on the computer. they don't even have to "meet" the person. they have the opportunity to "know" the absolute true person inside. which when all is said and done is who we end up with. after the bodies are gone and the old arthritis sets in and the old age sets in we are left with the real person, and if you don't like that then you truly are fucked. you can stroke a person long after the sex in gone and have that wonderful feeling still at any age. i love to have "baby" whispered in my ear or called "babe" and truly love to return the favor. i have terms of endearment for many people, i always have. it started out because i couldn't remember the names of people and has over the many moons just gotten to be part of who i am. it makes someone feel special and endearing for what ever time you give them. some words are meant for only certain people in my life. i am also not one to mince words. i say what i mean and mean what i say. if i say that i like you then i truly do. if i say that i love you then you can take that to the bank. if i tell you i care about you and whatever is going on in your life then believe it for it is the unbridled truth. i never say anything i don't mean. i don't pretend to be interested in you if i'm not. i expect no less from others. don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining. i don't want or need that. i don't want any pity parties. i want the truth and will give it in return. the truth may hurt but i'll get over it, i always do. i'm taking a trip this summer to visit a friend and am in the "stroking phase" now. sometimes it seems to go well and sometimes not so much. i want to meet this person so much and need to really know them. i think i do and i know it gets frustrating when you cannot see each other and have to communicate through modern technology. i like what i do know and hope this person likes what they know. a roller coaster is sometimes fun and sometimes not too much. sometimes you love it and sometimes you just get sick. it's all part of life. but what is life if not surprises and disappointments and wondrous new adventures? i'd rather be on the roller coaster getting the ups and downs than be on some boring road with nothing. so with heart in hand i'll keep on stroking and in turn hope to get stroked back. if i get stroked enough i'll even purrrrrr. peace and harmony.
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Posted by lastblastkl on 2008-03-03 09:59:40 | Rating: | Views: 69
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THERE IS NO REMEDY FOR LOVE BUT TO LOVE MORE (THOREAU)
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Posted by lastblastkl
on 2008-03-03 11:16:34
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Great blog! Our senses are amazing and I too, love pet names, especially babe, baby. I also love great cologne on men, that is a real turn-on for me which is why I usually give my men cologne as gifts!
Great that you know yourself so well and aren't afraid to put it out there! Peace!
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Posted by Ellie2008
on 2008-03-04 15:08:08
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You do know what you want, smile. I loved this blog and its honesty. Good reading! XXX
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Posted by Ellie2008
on 2008-03-04 22:05:57
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Isn't it wonderful to really know who you are and what you want w/o all the bs. I love this one blog. Keep writing and I'll keep reading.
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Posted by Nubian
on 2008-03-05 02:12:08
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