i have been having some dreams lately bordering on xxx rated. i wake up and am feeling like i need a cigarette or a drink. do i cuddle with myself since i don't like lovers who are just wham, bam, thank you ma'am, zzz...zzz...zzz. i thought "is there something wrong with me?". today there was a published study on this very subject. the university of montreal in canada did one on this subject with 109 women and 64 men ranging in ages from 20 to 89 that had answered an ad for the research project to keep a diary of their dreams. there were 3500 dreams accounted for with this group! WOW! the most common dream  with the group involved sexual intercourse followed by serious flirting, kissing, fantasies, and the last but not least masturbation. (poor little master.) 4% of the sex dreams resulted in actual orgasms. yea for that 4%! of the women's dreams 18% involved unwanted sex (been there done that one), compared to only 5% for the men (do men actually have sex when they don't want to?). with the women 9% of their sexual dreams were about celebrities and only 5% of the men. (i thought that number would be a little higher). men dreamt more of having sex with more than one partner at a time while the women NOT. BUT.....the women reported in their dreams that their partners were thoroughly satisfied in all ways. sorry men, but your partners were not. maybe you should take on just one at a time. the study went on to say that 8% of our total dreams are about sex and or fantasies. that sounds sort of low if you dream a lot but i wasn't in the study i just studied the study. it was thought for a very long time that women rarely even had these types of dreams. not any more. women have as many and sometimes more than men. although men are far more likely to have them about imaginary people. we women dream more of past and present lovers or friends. that came from the reports of healthy days news. men used to report having more sexual dreams. now twice as many women do.GOOD GOING GIRLS! the one kicker i found out was that vitamin D boosts your sex drive. but i think after reading this study that maybe we women already knew that one girls!  there are actual health benefits to sex too. you live longer. it's great excercise for your heart (cardio). it reduces stress and depression. improves you memory and strengthens bone and muscle. it is a fact that one who engages in sex looks up to seven years younger (a study from the scotland royal edinburgh hospitol). it's good for pain relief and may reduce the risk of prostate cancer. sex boosts your immune system and you lose weight. so what did i actually learn from this homework? hmmmm...about me? i learned that i'm very normal. i'm not demented or a sicko. i don't dream of weird shit or animals so i'm still in good standing with the humane society. i'm actually at my peak according to this university so thats good. so i guess i'll continue to dream (although one doesn't have a choice in that) and i'll continue to enjoy them and not blush so much. gosh its gotten warm in this room . temperature must have jumped a bit. i think i'll go to bed early.