called my friend tinkerbell this morning bc we were suposed to get together later for something and i was checking in as to the time since she is working for a while today. her finance was taken to the hospital and she was with him and started crying as soon as she heard my voice. he is very sick and they may have to do his transplant sooner than expected. i have never heard her cry in this manner and it broke my heart. she is a very very strong woman. she has cried with me over my things but never like this. my trip is postponed so i can be with her this week if she needs me. i would never go anywhere if i thought a friend needed me and i don't need a vacation. hell i've been on vacation since i left the spouse anyways. so please say a prayer for her. i don't know what she would do if anything happened to james. she talks the tough talk but when it comes to james and her children shes as mushy as i am with my family. i don't know much about georgetown (where he is) but i hope that god guides the hands of the surgeons and all goes well. thank u.