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| LADIES AND GENTLEMEN: PLACE YOUR BETS!
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in my blogs it isn't difficult to see the male species isn't "ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS". someone close to me pointed out that i shouldn't generalize so much and i should give the good guys some credit. ok, i thought..............that was an excellent obversation! maybe ALL MEN AREN'T ASSHOLES! maybe it's just the men in my life? no, thats not true either. i have some good males in my life past and present and hopefully the future. i had my dad who was a man with an almost unknown capacity to love and share and enjoy life. he was taken from me too soon. i had my grandson scottie who was and is an angel among all angels. again taken too soon. i have riley and jared who are the lights of my eyes. they keep me in constant wonderment. i know they are being raised to be good, decent and loving men. i hope to maybe meet someone someday ( yes, a male) and to develop a relationship that will withstand the times. maybe it's not in the cards and maybe it is, nobody knows. there are no guarentees in life. i started thinking about just that. maybe thats what i want. maybe i want a guarentee that i won't be hurt, i won't be hit, i won't be treated like shit, and i won't be fucked over. i want it in writing, witnessed, notarized, and put in stone that i won't ever again be made to feel like i'm an invisible piece of nothing. i want to be the one that gets nurtured and stroked and told what a great person i am. is that too much to ask? maybe so, who knows? but alas, i know there are no such things as guarentees in life so i'll lay my bets just as everyone else does and take what the dice give me. i hope and pray for a tall, decent looking, man that can open the windows of my heart and let the sunshine in again. to give me hope, and understanding and maybe lay a few odds himself. good luck at the tables ! peace and harmony
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Posted by lastblastkl on 2008-02-25 17:23:30 | Rating: | Views: 107
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The fault is with us. We expect more from men than we are willing to give. What is worse we score points differently.
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Posted by penumbra88
on 2008-02-25 17:28:20
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Forget men for awhile - find something that makes you happy.... and sad but true - There really are NO guarantees in life - especially with relationships.
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Posted by EasyToSay
on 2008-02-25 17:37:46
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i just want to be treated with respect, have fun, make out(and the rest too) and just enjoy someone's company. what is so difficult about that request? i just don't get it.
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Posted by lastblastkl
on 2008-02-25 17:38:10
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I understand what you are saying...I just want to let you know that its not difficult and I even I still be its not hard to have the right man to find you even going through my own little chaos in my life. It will happen when you least expect it too but during this time please remember to keep loving yourself.
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Posted by Nubian
on 2008-02-25 22:09:17
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Nubian, is right. Keep loving yourself and the more you love and honor yourself, the less shit you will put up with. Had to do that myself. Sometimes, we get sideswiped by men who aren't as easy to read, but when we honor ourself, we recover quicker and move on even faster! Peace.
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Posted by Ellie2008
on 2008-02-26 10:02:32
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