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Sex. The action it embodies is completely mysterious to me. The french-kissing and the foreplay I've got handled pretty well. But the actual climax, the peak? I know nothing about it.
I've read about it, been thinking about it since I was a kid. And now I'm in a new relationship with a guy who seems to know everything I don't about how to pleasure the partner.
How the HELL am I supposed to compete with that? Compete isn't even the right word...
Whenever he fingers me to orgasm, or when I ride him silly and bring it on myself, I sit there wondering, "What the hell am I supposed to do for him?" A few days ago after I was finished, he said, "So are you good?" I replied, "Yeah, but what about you? Are you good? What do YOU want to do?" And he said, "As long as you're happy, I'm happy."
When I came home that night, I started to wonder about that. Was he just saying that so I wouldn't know how horrible he thought I was at satisfying his cravings? Or does he really find joy in the fact that he plays a role in my pleasure?
i asked one of our mutual friends, Eric, about it. He said that he personally enjoyed the giving more than the getting, that he likes to make the girl feel good.
I still am really self-conscious about it! I'm still a virgin, so I've never experienced the absolute thrill of sex, of having a man inside of me. I know I'm terrible at the art of lovemaking. I just don't know what to do about it.
I think the next time we see each other (which will be tomorrow night, coincidentally) then I will ask him about it. Maybe he can teach me some moves? As much as I LOVE being pleasured by him (he knows what he;s doing), I want to make him feel just as good. I want to turn him on so damn much it kills me! AHHH!
Well, I'll keep you updated on the progress!
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ok here is the run down.
it is true that guys love to make a girl uh how do you say.... moan and what not. however, if they are not knocked off their feet a couple times it will get old and they will want some fun. Do you know about the magazine COSMOPOLITAN? read that. it will really help with pointers on driving him wild (even if you aren't ready for sex- there are tricks and oral things that are fun) It will really make him feel good also if you tease and tease and tease so he gets more built up. Oh and one more thing- BE CONFIDENT. if you are confident in your sexiness body and love tricks, the experience will be 10x better for BOTH of you. Guys LOVE that confidence, especially when things heat up ;) well i hope what i have shared with you helps! let me know how things go or if u need more advice
-k
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Posted by iamnotsam
on 2007-08-08 13:47:47
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I'm a little confused. You say "when I ride him silly," but then you say you're a virgin?
If you want to pleasure him, just adore his penis. I'm assuming you're having oral sex even if you're not having intercourse, so focus on the art of the blow. There are books written on the subject - go to your local bookstore's sex section and read up.
You can lose yourself in this act. Just focus on nothing else but how you're making him feel (and how you look as you do it.) Look him in the eyes while he watches your tongue. ITA with iamnotsam - confidence is way sexy.
And thank your lucky stars that you have a guy who cares whether you're satisfied. You're already ahead of the game.
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Posted by bellaroux
on 2007-08-10 20:58:42
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