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I talk on line quiet often, and being in a certain mind frame, I searched for someone in that same mind set to talk to on line. Its not hard to search for someone and chat to random strangers, what you dont suspect is a nice guy wrapped up in that mood.
I asked him why in his profile did he not put more detail about who he was, and he said, he tried that, he put details in about what a nice, normal person he was, and yet no one replied to him, he changed his details to basicaly two lines and then he meets women.
Women generally say they want a nice, sweet, funny stable man, but when it boils down to it, is that really what we want? Someone who is kind, decent and fun to be with, or are we really pining for that pig that walks in the door? I know what the answer for me is, whilst I was out looking for a certain expeirence, I got a whole lot more then what I bargained for and it was a nice chat.
It kind of felt like within a few minutes my feet were swept off the floor by a sweet, caring person and I liked that. The attention I received, the silly sense of humour, the genuine thoughtfullness.
I am glad I met this person, I am glad he is exactly how he is, and I look forward to future chats and getting to know him better, seeing what else comes from this one chat.
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Posted by landdownunder on 2008-03-02 12:50:02 | Rating: | Views: 91
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Title this one "My First Online Chat":P Simple as that. Glad you had such a nice experience. I have been there done that with chat. I just dont have much energy/patience left for it right now. If I never meet one or more of these ppl...it is just using my life energy.
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-03-02 21:50:36
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Ive been chatting on line for approx 7 years now, occasionally you still find that great personality, that you really gel with.
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Posted by landdownunder
on 2008-03-04 12:21:42
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Hey, me too:D started in 2001. Yea, I've met a few greats...but it leaves me feeling sick later when the glass and distance still get to me. I cannot live on a machine. While I am still able to walk and run and climb, this will never be enough. But, the odds of hooking up with these people...slim. That's why I wish I could fly:P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-03-04 23:19:38
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Smiling, I guess it really depends on what you want from the net, sure there are some really annoying people that cross your path, just like in real life, and then you get to meet the most amazing people, just in real life. Its fun, you do it on a rainy day, when boredom has set in etc, and so, then it works, if its your solely your social interaction, it would suck.
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Posted by landdownunder
on 2008-03-05 05:01:22
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Great, now I feel like I kinda suck:P
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-03-06 02:34:47
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Oh pffft, you do not suck, laughing, just life is about balance and you need to find that balance and the net can be addictive, so, smiling, it is all really relative actually.
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Posted by landdownunder
on 2008-03-06 04:44:24
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