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I have high expectations of myself and others, and I know that they are impossible for me to live up to, let alone have anyone else try and meet them, and so I feel frustrated when it comes to others, because, I know they are going to fail and fail miserably, but, yet I want them to succeed and yet, I find myself cutting them out of my life when failure occurs, so, any ideas on how to breawk my expectations to accept others into my life?
Posted by landdownunder on 2008-03-19 07:42:04 | Rating: n/a | Views: 61


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Posted by
neha1987
on 2008-03-19 07:45:36
 
Even I had that problem earlier then slowly and gradually I started keeping no expectations from others and it worked. But till today I have not found solution for expectations that i keep from myself and then the pain I suffer when I fail.
 
 

Posted by
Elaina
on 2008-03-19 10:10:51
 
i remembered my sister has said something that strike my mind! "We are not the little worm in your stomach." People can't read you as they are not YOU!
We need to voice out whatever we want with the person so that we understand each other.
Or either we can do things according to our own feeling instead of pleasing someone else.
(When one do not appreciate what we done for them, we get dissappointed. This is called EXPECTATION.)
Do it following your heart even though the person do not response with appreciation cos you're doing it for yourself! I bet you feel much better n lighter in life! Vice-versa too...
 
 


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