I've been seeing more and more blogs created for the apparent purpose of ranting about a partner/ex/soon-to-be-ex/etc. Obviously I rant a lot, so I am not knocking ranting. What I am knocking is peoples inability to see their own flaws and mistakes and focus solely on what the other person did (wrong).
If I cheat on my husband, it is because I made the bad choice to do so. Not because he was busy at work trying to keep food on my table and I got lonely and bored, therefore making it his fault that I had to make that choice in the first place. It takes two to make a marriage, it also takes two to break it.
All I'm saying is I am beyond sick and tired of hearing about what a whore/slut/horrible parent/dickless jerkoff/liar/cheater/murder your ex/soon-to-be-ex is. Don't you think that possibly, just possibly, you may have a little something to do with where things are and/or how they got that way in the first place?
Perhaps you could put some energy and time into a well spent self evaluation on why it is you continually choose to date and/or marry liars/cheaters/etc. Maybe, just maybe, you should listen when the people who love you most tell you that "it" is a mistake and beg you not to do it. And maybe, just MAYBE, you should turn your finger around and figure out your own issues instead of sounding like a skipping record pointing out all of so-and-so's obvious flaws.
Get a life. Plain and simple. Get a life and get on with it already. You are turning into a pathetic bore. And that definetly isn't going to help your situation either, as should already be obvious.
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