I am having a very introspective day. I've realized a lot of things. I've wondered on even more things. And I really do want to set the record straight. As far as this place goes and all of you go-this is a HUGE part of my life. YOU are a huge part of my life. I hate all the crap that goes on at times, but every family has its feuds, right?
So, onto the next thing. The BOYFRIEND thing. Have you heard of the whole "work spouse" concept? It's a bit like that. I like and respect this person very much (as I do many of you) and have gotten to be pretty good friends with him. Hanging on the curb, chatting on the phone. Yes-I call him boyfriend. And yes-I AM married. I am very happily married.
My husband (Aaron) has been one of my closest friends for years. He is the best man a girl could ask for. If yo don't believe me check with Mandie, she's seen him in action. Yeah, I do my fair share of bitching about him-but, he is the one that makes my world go around. And he is well aware of EVERYTHING that goes on here. He knows how much time I spend here, how important this is to me. All of it.
Aaron reads these blogs. We talk about our "friends" here just like we do in the real world. He has helped me pick out presents for some of you and seen the presents some of you have sent me. He went to Vegas and met a handful of the most awesome people I know.
My point here is-although I talk big and brag about my secret love life-there are no secrets in my marriage. We are completely open and honest with each other, we always have been. So when I talk about my boyfriend, please don't throw stones at me or start sewing a scarlet letter. I am not that person. That is not what this is. He (my boyfriend) is a very good friend and that is it. We flirt, but who doesn't?
Well, there you have it. Now I've told you where everything stands. Me and the two men in my life. I love both of them, just in different ways. And they both know about each other. Like I said-no secrets, so there you have it.
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