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Yes, trail hubby. I just got wind today that my husband is spending an insane amount of time with another woman. But there's good news; that woman said that he isn't her type. Well, whoop de FREAKING do.
Here's the background story.
My husband and I moved in with my mother because we are short on cash. We were behind on everything. My husband decided that he couldn't stand living here, and to help his parents with watching his sister, moved into their house. So now he lives 35 minutes away from me. My job is here. I can't go there.
So he met this girl at his work, which is also here btw, and started staying late on the nights that she came in to chat with her. I don't care about that. It's talking, it's a public place. Then I get word a couple weeks ago that she quit. That's the last thing I hear about her.
Things are going great when suddenly today at lunch, my mother looks at me and says "Did you know that your husband is going over to that woman's house in the middle of the night?" I only know of one time when he went over there and that was when he was frustrated about his job. Remember she used to work there too. Then my mother tells me about some text messages that he's sent her. Calling her sweetpea, asking her if she thinks he's fun. (I don't know what he means but I personally hope that he hopes he's fun in a Monopoly way.) This girl went to my sister, who works where my husband works, and showed her the text messages. My sister has her send them to her email. Then she forwards them to me. Not wanting to jump to conclusions, I am setting up a time to meet this lady and check out her phone. Sensible right?
Just this weekend, my sister and husband had a conversation. This is each of their versions to the best of my memory.
Sis: He said that you're lucky he hasn't cheated on you yet because you don't give him enough sex.
Hubby: I told her that if I was a mean person, I would have thought about cheating on you because we don't have enough sex.
Me: Hello, we don't even live under the same roof 5 of the 7 days a week.
Sis: He says that he regrets marrying you.
Hubby: I told her that I wish we had waited a little long to get married but I don't regret marrying you.
Me: wtf do I say to that?
And yada yada yada.... the rest is about the same way. She says something, he says something similar but gives a reason behind it. WHO THE HELL DO I BELIEVE?? My hubby who I vowed to honor and cherish, or my sister who is also my best friend and I personally believe that neither of them would lie to me but SOME ONE HAS TO BE! That lady also told my sister that my hubby has complained about me not giving him sex as well.
Hubby and I have been married for a little over a year and dated for almost 2 before getting hitched.
I need advice really bad. Please help!
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Posted by kyennik on 2007-11-29 22:30:06 | Rating: | Views: 94
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Hmm. Honestly, if you value your marriage, and he vows he wants it too, and will work for it, he needs to stop seeing her and the both of you work on getting back under the same roof. Not without a lot of good talks though. And trust your gut. May be very hard to do, since it might not tell you what you want to hear. But talk. And talk alone. Your sis and his co-worker should really stay out of it.
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Posted by dreamworld
on 2007-11-29 22:49:16
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Sorry, to clarify, under the same roof, but not your family's roof, your own.
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Posted by dreamworld
on 2007-11-29 22:50:00
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I agree and I am trying to find a way for us to do this. He doesn't like the places that I like and he is beginning to treat any money he gets like it's his allowance or something. I go all week bumming money off my parents for gas and cigs while he spends money on whatever he wants. I don't think he realizes how much this bothers me.
Thanks for the comments.
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Posted by kyennik
on 2007-11-29 22:52:22
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