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| need advice- i'm hesitant about breaking up |
i am thinking about breaking up with my current boyfriend of 3 years, but i am hesistant.
he doesn't keep a job for more than 6 months, mostly because he doesn't know what it is he wants to do, and he is never satisfied with the pay ... and his family doesn't like me, and i don't like his family ..... i don't like the instability with his job(s) and i hate the idea of being linked to his family in any way shape or form, but they are soo close that they freak out of anyone moves more than 20 miles away .... but i absolutely love him to pieces and he is great to me ... but i feel like he's holding me back ... so .... do i pursue my dreams i've held forever and break up, or do i stay with him and have a garunteed great husband and settle for a job locally around here .....
he is now saying that he wants to go to college for electrical engineering, and again, seems pretty into this, and, that's a plus, however, that doesn't fix the family issue ....
not to mention, my dad and most of my family don't want me married to him because of the fact that he would never be able to support me on his own if needed ... he asked my dad once before if he could marry me, and my dad told him no ....
but i love him ... a lot ... he can make me laugh when i am feeling the absolute worst, but he knows when to be there just as a shoulder to cry on. he loves me sooooo much, i can't put it into words. we have been referred to as the "perfect couple" and i have yet to meet another couple to gets along better than we do.... we just love each other, and i mean a LOT....
i have been holding down my concerns, but what brought them all up to the table was a guy at my college likes me, and he graduates next semester with his Bachelors in computer networking ... and i can't help play out in my mind how much EASIER life would be married to him instead ... and he seems sweet enough =) ............ but i am afraid of not finding what i have with jake ever again if i were to break up with him .....
so which wins over? family and dreams, or an untouchable love with war between the in-laws and financial struggles which possibly could lead to the same issue of leaving one another?
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Posted by ksubam06 on 2009-09-24 18:43:09 | Rating: | Views: 45
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