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Do Soul Mates Really Exist?
Do you think your "soul mate" is out there somewhere, that individual who can complement you and fulfill you like no one else? Is there one man or woman who is ideally suited to you? Is it your task to find this mystery person?
Many singles hold to the notion-either consciously or subconsciously-that there is one perfect, preordained partner for them. They were made for each other, the thinking goes, and they must simply locate this person or forever feel incomplete.
The fact is that there are people out there that are 100% compatible for you. They fit your personality so perfect that you literally say the same thing at the same time on a regular basis. Although everyone has their flaws, to you these people are pretty much too good to be true, and the best part of it is that they feel the same exact way about you. These people do exists, but the hard part is where to find them.
So what if your soul mate is located across the globe? Well, since the makeup of a true soul mate is generally molded around one’s personality, it is very unlikely that someone with different cultural values is the one for you. Not impossible, but unlikely. Often times there is a person that you already know, but just have not become close enough with yet. The person for you could be right in front of your eyes. Although studies have shown that it’s possible to have more than one soul mate present on this earth, it is very unlikely that you meet more than one in your lifetime. The real secret is realizing where that person exists in your life.
I believe soul mates are not just born, but can also be made. You start with the ingredients for a highly compatible, successful relationship, and then you work to develop closeness and intimacy. Does this mean you lower your standards when it comes to finding a partner? Absolutely not! It simply means you "expand your field of vision."
Soul mates can come at any point in your life. Some are old, while others can meet in their early twenties or even younger. Your real soul mate will be on your mind all the time, and bring a smile to your face with a simple thought. Your emotions for them are so strong that it is impossible to say the feeling you get when you are with them. Being with them is the highlight of your day, and presumably your life. No matter what happens, a part of them will be with you forever.
I wish all of you well on your journey to find your soul mate, as I have been happily married to mine for 14 years now.
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Posted by kojo90 on 2008-01-31 04:58:37 | Rating: | Views: 54
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I love this post...and I absolutely agree. I too have found my soulmate and its just the most indescribable feeling. I have like a million faults (don't we all), but he loves me anyway, unconditionally. I feel exactly the same about him. He lives 260 miles away and yet he knows when I am down and will ring me or drop me a text to tell me to cheer up, he loves me. I always say we are not two people, but two halves of the same person, that's how I'd describe a soulmate. This post made me think of my man and I got so emotional I just had to ring him and tell him I love him! Lol
Thank you for this post...I'm so glad you are with yours too, and I wish this feeling for everyone.
'Love is not seeing the perfect person...it is seeing an imperfect person perfectly...'
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Posted by chebtastic1
on 2008-01-31 17:28:10
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