Posted by
thehughman1
on 2008-01-04 22:54:11 |
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It sounds as though you may be a bit jealous. Things change over time. Your baby is just that...a baby. Give this thing some time to get used to...for you and the father. Remember one thing...and listen carefully...because the answer to this question determines this babies future...
Is this child the culmination of the love you and the father share...or shared? Or was it something that was not wanted by either of you? |
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Posted by
kmalbro
on 2008-01-04 23:10:49 |
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| look. i don't expect a lot from a guy. as a general rule, no offense, most men are just pretty bad with responsibilities. but for the love of God she's four months old and he has yet to do anything and i do mean ANYthing besides want to play with her when she smiles. the minute she actually NEEDS something he is off and busy with his friends, watching tv, running around playing pool at the bar, whatever. and quite frankly i'd be better off without him around at all. instead i have a guy who gets my hopes up that he'll be supportive and then bails when the time comes. |
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Posted by
hairytoad2005
on 2008-01-05 05:44:02 |
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| My friend and his girlfriend had a son recently and I've heard that she's not too happy about how much work he puts into taking care of the baby. His defence is that he works all day to support them. I think this is a common dispute amongst couples. |
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Posted by
HungryHeart
on 2008-01-06 15:29:09 |
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| Raising a child has to be 50/50. I don't think it is too much to ask for a man to change some diapers or walk the floor cradling her when a child is crying or cranky. Those are the times the child most needs someone. |
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