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Bring On The Unknown on 2007-12-31 11:46:15 |
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i think i got labled at one point in the past few days as slightly bitter about relationships because i sounded off about being able to be happy with only yourself as a resource...but i fall back on that now saying that sometimes it is best to be that hermit, that guy who collects stamps or bugs and whatnot...because those people may be lonely but at least they've got other things to make them happy. whereas the rest of us with people surrounding them, taking chances on life and love are JUST AS LONELY. only we're the morons who are taking the hollywood stance and leaping headfirst off the cliffs of love...so whats the difference?
i think paul mccartney captured it best with his song...all the lonely people, where do they all come from...i look at all the lonely people...where do they all belong?
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Illegal Drugs on 2007-12-31 11:39:43 |
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i love blogs like this one because its so thought provoking...that and i totally understand the feeling of just wanting to get out a statement and have someone actually listen. people need to listen to others ideas and viewpoints to come up with appropriate solutions to these problems affecting our society...oh wait, wasn't that what the government was originally supposed to do for us?
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The truth. on 2007-12-30 18:18:04 |
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as someone who has been a cutter for a very long time, and long before it was well known and accepted by traditional therapy, i have to say bravo for your willingness to talk about it openly.
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The Enchanted Forest on 2007-12-30 17:55:17 |
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darkness and light both guide us...we are all directed by the good and the bad inside our thoughts. and the bad can put us in the path of something perfect. all things work together for good, right? beautiful writing, difficult. just beautiful.
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I believe..... on 2007-12-30 13:30:09 |
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paris hilton is lacking the one key ingrediant to sexiness in a women...CLASS. often paired up with GRACE. and i have watched the entire five seasons of angel more than once so kudos to that. also...i am way more for child molesters should be castrated on live television and then made eat their own unit while slowly bleeding to death. children are the last piece of natural beauty this world may ever see, taking that away from them isn't an offense that can be gotten away with. as a mother i may be slightly biased tho.
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Stop Feeling???? on 2007-12-30 13:26:23 |
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people are just judgemental. we all are, it just varies depending on the issue...but bearing in mind that people who look at your situation are probably not big woody allen fans. and after seeing annie hall three million times, who CANNOT be a woody allen fan? so eff them, they are obviously just the people who had a similar dilemma and chose badly leading them to bitterness towards those still struggling.
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Love is a battefield on 2007-12-29 23:52:20 |
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i think that people need to stop blogging all the time about finding love because there are a million people who find love, the real and true magic of love, and let it go because they aren't willing to work on keeping it. i guess i personally am just so tired of people thinking that its all just a fairytale and the moment its NOT an epic romance they just abandon it as not worth the effort. lets all note that those epic romances were all tried by fire and thats what made them so great.
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Holding Hands on 2007-12-29 22:05:24 |
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its human nature to be unable to go back to where we started. once you hold hands, those cute little flirty glances aren't enough, and once you kiss, holding hands isnt enough, then once you make out, kisses aren't enough...etc etc.
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questions... on 2007-12-29 21:54:05 |
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cheesy cheesy cheesy. why do people insist on saying that it will work out in the end? what sounds more hopeless than that? you know that song...100 years...about how we only have 100 years or so on earth and it goes by so quickly? so why waste a second of that time on wondering how and when love will happen. love hurts, it will always hurt because as humans we are only interested in the fun parts of love, the fuzzy huggy moments and nothing else. we don't want love, we want the happy ending to last for forever and it just doesn't.
so instead of looking around for the perfect match, the perfect love, focus on yourself and what truly makes you happy. by yourself, with a friend, through a hobby or a book or a poem or a song you sing every day in the car...100 years is too short to look to anyone but yourself to be content. if the right person comes along and it works out, awesome bonus for you. but don't be like one of those sports fans whose happiness rides on their team winning a game...you should be the only one to control what makes you happy and what gets you down.
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The Disease of Hidden Love on 2007-12-29 21:24:56 |
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and yet if not for these diseases of the soul where would our inspirations stem from? much as it seems bleak to admit...as writers we are also masters of turning the darkness into something beautiful. there is no worthwhile self examination while simply staring into the happy mirror. its the shadows that make us worth the glance.
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Woman at the Table on 2007-12-29 21:15:54 |
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also a little silly...because of course we all want that special someone who does everything just right...but when is this pondering going to reach the inevitable conclusion? what women want is always going to be a mystery to men...perhaps it is not that these men are not meeting our obvious needs, it is instead that our needs are not quite so obvious. for a time try treating your man just as he treats you...do not date him, woo him, constantly affirm that you love him, see how he reacts. most likely he will notice a change and be concerned, but he will not suddenly feel as though his relationship is unhappy or that he is desiring more from it. we think differently then men do...and if a women honestly needs a more understanding man than she needs to learn to speak his language just as clearly as we expect them to learn to speak ours :)
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Im Worried on 2007-12-29 20:51:56 |
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advice about the guy...guys get scared and run away. he may come back, he may not, it may take time, it may never happen. don't let what he does decide how you react. take some deep breaths and wait it out...but don't make it harder on yourself by including him in the list of things to stress over.
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