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So a couple weeks ago the guy Kelly really likes kissed me. I haven't really seen him for more than 20 minutes since then though (he works until right before I have to be home). Yesterday was the first time I hung out with hm since then and...well...we made out like six times.
I feel terrible, because Kelly REALLY likes him, I would even say she loves him. And it's not one of those crushes that the other person doesn't know about either, they were like together for about a year. They weren't officially going out though (probably because he has a girlfriend that she refuses to believe exists). Anyway, the last time we kissed we said it was just going to be that one time and that it meant nothing. We agreed that neither of us had feelings for each other and that we would just continue being friends and not say anything to anyone else (with the excepting of M and E our best friends).
Well M (his best friend) told me that this guy has developed feelings for me and that he really likes me and is considering breaking up with his girlfriend. I don't know what to do, because we have this unexplainable chemistry between us, but I know that it would be a terrible idea to date him. For one thing there's Kelly She would be sooo crushed and our friendship would pretty much be over. And the fact that this guy is NOT boyfriend material...he cheats and lies and is just a jerk to his girlfriends once they start going out. Part of that is because just last year he was dumped by the girl he was head over heals in love with.
So I can't date him, I can't fool around with him because I don't want to hurt Kelly; but I am having trouble being in the same room with him with out imagining how we could be alone in the next few minutes. What makes it worse is that he does the same thing, but instead of keeping the ideas to himself he texts them to me so we can carry them out. I think I forgot things in the house twice, had to go to the bathroom 3 times, and NEEDED to change the music desperately once too.
What happened to the me that would NEVER do this to her friend or be the "other woman" to some one's boyfriend?! I really am trying not to do anything...it just doesn't help that he has NO self control at all.
confused as always,
--treacherous and awful friend AKA Kelsey
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Posted by kkeller on 2008-07-28 20:23:07 | Rating: | Views: 50
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do draw the line clearly..love and need..if live you cannot stop people from loving you but you can stop loving people this is your own will. If it is just a need to be together, it might just because of the sex or other need which will not last long
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Posted by GnR
on 2008-07-28 21:18:16
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I was in the mall shopping for a picture frame for a relatively close friend of mine. She had just come home from her honeymoon and we were getting together this coming weekend to catch up and look at her photos . As I was walking into the store I made eye contact with her husband, surprisingly he approached me and we began speaking to one another. Now, I had only met him about three or four times before because after they met she stopped seeing many of her friends as with most new relationships. It was a brief dating period for them, in fact, they were married within five months of meeting each other. He was very pleasant, in fact he was overly nice and was leading into conversations that were making me feel a little uneasy. He started asking personal questions about my relationships and made an inquiry about me going out with a newly married man and how he could really show me a good time. He asked for my cellphone number and would not stop until I gave in, "WHAT A FOOL I AM" Now I don't know what to do, I can't tell my her because it will end my friendship for sure and I can't possibly go to her home and pretend this didn't happen. I confided with another close friend of mine and she told me about this site http://urajerk.com/ At first I thought is was just another one of those sites that pop up here and there but I checked it out. I must say I like it and thats why I am spreading the word. I was able to send him a few cards with some personal anonymous messages, he will know they are from me, but no one else will. I love this site because I can at least tell him that he is a F#%//ng JERK. Has anyone else gone through this crap before? How can men be such assholes? I mean JERKS!!!
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Posted by linda_nyc
on 2008-07-29 06:26:45
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