'My' Christmas message.
The true meaning of Christmas, does tend to be forgotten by most, mainly due to commerce and greed, sadly.
In the olden days, Christmas Eve and day were special, it was a time spent rejoicing the reason day of why we had 'Christmas', whether or not we were church going or not, no matter what faith, it was regarded an extra special day.. a time to bring people together, to stay together, heal riffs and turmoils, to start afresh if you will - also, the following day, gifts were handed out to those less fortunate, or those 'below stairs' in the more higher class houses - the gifts were of clothing, food, toys and nik naks, all put and given in boxes - suffice to say, that is why in England, the day after Christmas got its name: 'Boxing day' - this was the main day to exchange gifts - whereas again, these days, most gifts are given and opened the first thing Christmas morn, which is a shame really tradition wise, but with time and modern day forever changing, it seems alot of traditions are being forgot and a more 'modern' attitude has developed, whereas 'anything goes' - but, personally, I like to keep the old traditions lit and passed on, I think its important to pass the knowledge on to the next generation, in the hope they too will pass it on to their own siblings, if of course, they are lucky enough to have any.

I personally find this time of year difficult, most know why - but it is not just about 'me' -
- I always feel rather annoyed [putting it mildly], simply as soon as Christmas approaches, hostels open their doors more freely, offering meals and a warm bed/change of clothes/shower, etc, just over Christmas time for those that are homeless - now, to me, that makes no sense, there are many homeless, and 99% do not wish to live on the street and have to fight each day to survive, to eat, to live - yet suddenly at Christmas time, they are thought of more - to me, that does not make one iota of sense - they should be thought about throughtout the year, not just Christmas, so they get a nice meal, a rest overnight, then pushed back onto the streets, sorry, to me, we as in the government in all countries, should be doing much, much more than this - also, it is mostly non paid charity workers, whom do all this, without hardly any funding from the government, mostly it seems, the government don't help out at all, they push the issue under the carpet - so long as they [the mp's etc] have a roof over their heads, clothes on their backs and food in their stomaches, they dont stop and think of those homeless and those less fortunate..but, of course, they do try to appear to make the effort at Christmas, which I find saddening.

Christmas to most is a joyous time, to spend with family, to enjoy company and eat and be merry - but, dont forget those that have no family, those that are elderly and on their own, those homeless on the cold streets, give them a thought, as Christmas time is for people to unite - not a time really for material things such as the next 'playstation' or 'designer perfume', or, sadly, the next puppy, which in the New Year, gets cast out Christmas is more than that, its got nothing to do with money, the money and gifts is just a part of the 'holiday season' that we have had pushed upon us, but, it detracts the real reason, the true spirit of Christmas and why we have that day each year on the 25th, to which most of us celebrate.

Mum and I do not exchange gifts as such, as having each other is gift enough, thats just how we view it anyway..soft smile.
So, give a thought about others worse off this time of year, those that are lonely, those that do feel isolated and depressed and those less fortunate and, perhaps, hold onto that 'thought' and, continue to think of those less fortunate throughout the year and show action, not just at Christmas? - it would help so much.

And last but not least, please? dont buy animals as gifts at Christmas time, its too much for them - too noisy and too much excitement, its also too much for the household and, as stated sadly, most puppies for example are given to dog homes straight after Christmas,
so, if you want to get a pet, wait till the New Year, eh? when everything is quieter and you, the household and the pet can bond and settle in more and, you are sure the 'pet' is wanted - there is nothing more heartbreaking than to see the influx of kittens/puppies and little household pets, who have been bought without real thought or preparation, only to be filling the rehoming centres or, plainly abandoned on the streets after Boxing day.

So for those that love Christmas, great, go for it and have a blast, please dont drink and drive, and ladies especially? make sure you get a fully licensed taxi booked in advance, dont jump into just any 'taxi' - better safe than sorry.
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.soft smile.. and, above all, spare a wee thought for the whys and wherefores of Christmas, no matter what you believe in faithwise and, perhaps some of the things I have mentioned above. ..warm smile and hugs
Blessed Be.

Love & light
A



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I wiill not respond to bullies, trouble makers, to harrasment or highly opinionated and judgemental people, whose opinon is stated, but done to purposely and knowingly hurt others or, those that push another down for their own amusement, there is a huge difference between opining ones view and, emotionally hurting people, which some seem to adore doing and, it is by no means funny or amusing to make someone suffer more emotionally, or, to reduce them to tears and to make them feel scared and intimidated to be here or come here.
I am an adult, I will not be drawn into open drama tirades, instead I will step back, walk away and say nothing more, simply because I am an adult. I will not make someones ego grow by joining in with drama just to promote their standing more or, 'cult' status - it does not work or wash with me and I am not blinkered.
I respect others feelings/situations - try to respect mine and others also.
And, I was brought up to thiink before speakiing and, to take into account anothers feelings, no matter what - I stand firm in my values and, yes I have my opinions, but, I still am careful and considerate of others, simply, because I care and respect.

I am here to blog, read, write and to share and to care, to try and relax for awhile from myy real time and, help, listen and respond to others as much as I ccan - and, perhaps, get some support and kindness and understanding in return - fullstop.

I am not here to 'compete', or, make myself 'stand' out, even though some are here for that reason and, finally, nor did I join here to be hurt, to be intimidated and made tto feel worthless and have my own self esteem pulled even lower and my health affected more, but, enoughs enough I dont like a bully and yes, you suceeded in making me cry and I am not ashamed to admit you have had me sobbing for nearly 24 hours and sstill am.
Had to speak out, this, has taken me alot of time, courage and guts to write and am shaking even being here tonight, but, this site is my lifeline, this is my blog, and I have feelings, its always been open to viiew and I have always been as open and frank with everything in each of mmy serious diary eentries, just give me a break, please, dont take away anymore from me and please ddont force me into leaving Thoughts, this is all I hhave, I want to stayy here, I need somewhere to feel safe and secure.

aand to everyone else, I am sorry, I know I am behind on maiils, over past few days,, I will try to catch up another day and respond to all of them iin due course, but, I am not feeling upto it all and am going to get mum undressed and into bed as its gettiing late, then go to bed myself as am in lot of pain as well as all else. am hoping this blog entry does nnot look a mess and everything is readable and looks okayy have done my best so pplease forgiive me .