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 Do it or deal with it!!!
Well it has been a while since I have posted on here, but tonight I have something to say. 
For anyone who has a problem with a poem I posted back in March 08, titled
"The Most Vital Thing", I would please like you to comment on it now and get it over with or deal with it damn it!!! 
For crying out loud, I just had a world class jack ass comment on this post and rake a fellow member over the coals for leaving a kind comment.  For God sakes people, what is going on here on Thoughts???  This is a poem!!!  An inspirational poem!!! 
This is the whole reason I have stopped posting things on this site.  I use to love coming here and leaving beautiful messages here for all of you to read, and I loved the wonderful comments I'd get.  But then the wonderful comments would be ruined by the two or three mean hateful ones that would be thrown in by someone who's heart is so full of hate, that they don't see, what we are all trying to do, is to share our own unique individual part of ourselves with eachother.   We are all different from one another.  I like red...you may like blue... I pray to God...you may pray to Allah or Buddha, is one of us wrong? No... we are just different people.  
I like coconut on my icecream... you like yours plain. 
I like the poems I post... some of  you obviously find them offensive. 
If that is the case, I won't appogize, I like them.  Just don't read them. 
I like them.  I can't please everybody, and I don't try to! 
If I went to the blog sites of the people who left rude comments on my posts,  I probably wouldn't like what you have on it, but I can promise you, I would NEVER leave you upsetting mean comments on your posts.  One click and I'd be gone.  That's all it takes.  No effort, no head aches, and no stress.  Why upset yourself by writing mean and hateful things, and why upset the person you are writing it to??? I just don't understand.  
So to all of you out there in Thoughts land.  Please...if you are ever going to leave any mean and nasty comments on my post, please do it now, and get it over with.  It just ruins my day to open up and find a nasty comment on some post I wrote almost a year ago. 
    Posted by keepdreaming on 2008-12-10 00:23:46 | Rating: | Views: 131
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You go and good for you! The world can definitely use less nasty anything as far as I'm concerned.

For the record, I read the poem and I enjoyed it. I may not have a degree in literature or care about poetry style or how many words were used, I just enjoy reading poetry for how it makes me feel, and as far as I'm concerned, that will always be the most important thing.

Keep dreaming and posting about ideas, don't let someone's ugly words stop you from doing what you enjoy!
Posted by  LostLamb  on 2008-12-10 00:43:20 
  
I don't ever plan on leaving you a mean message, you know how much I love you!!! *hugs*
Posted by  heatherslife  on 2008-12-10 01:00:54 
  
Lostlamb, thank you for your comment. I so agree! What is the point of bashing someone else's post? Who are we, and what right do we have? Are we the Post Police? No one is forcing us to read something we don't like. If someone is, then take it out on the person forcing them to read it, not the person writing it. Last I heard it's a free country! Thanks Again!
Posted by  keepdreaming  on 2008-12-10 09:44:39 
  
Heatherslife, oh thank you hun, I KNOW you would never leave a mean message!!! Angels are not capable of hateful acts! :) I luv U 2
Posted by  keepdreaming  on 2008-12-10 09:46:30 
  
Agreement #2 -- Don't Take Anything Personally

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

"The Four Agreements"
Author: Don Miguel Ruiz

Keepdreaming -- I wondered what happened to you. I'm so sorry it's the words of a meanie that brought you back to us. There will always be someone who doesn't like what we say or post. Unfortunately, when we post in a public forum we open ourselves up to both good and bad comments. I try very hard never to give anyone enough power, over me, to ruin my day.

I guess I look at the comment section as being separate from my post. It's like if I stayed at a resort hotel I can control what happens in my room, but not in the public areas of the hotel. While much goes on in a hotel lobby or public area, I don't have to invite these individuals up to my room for tea and crumpets. There have been times when the comment section, of one of my posts, has taken on a life of it's own. Perhaps this separation (of posts and comments) is the reason I rarely engage others or write comments on my own posts. If someone has a question or I feel a response is needed I correspond via private email.

Last month I was blessed to meet and get to know (in person) thoughts staff and a group of individuals who write here. In my entire life I have never experienced or received such kindness, acceptance and love. My grandmother always said ... "a few bad apples don't spoil the whole bunch." What a beautiful experience I would have missed if I ran away from this place of thoughts, because of the insensitivity of a few individuals. Wishing you a day blessed with peace and love from above.

Posted by  ColoradoDreamin  on 2008-12-10 13:32:38 
  
Hey...You want me to kick some ass for you??? I'm sooooooooo there!!! People are assholes (as well we both know this)...hang in there girl...hang tough!!!! <3 S
Posted by  dreampower  on 2008-12-10 16:02:11 
  
Oh Colorado...you so know how to look at things don't you?? I'd invite you to my house for tea and crumpets any day. :) Although, I don't REALLY know what a crumpet is for sure. Hee-hee. How about muffins? I can do muffins! Thanks, I'll be sure to take your advice!
Luv U

My Bestest Girl DP...there you are...ready to kick butt for me...lets go girlfriend. Jerks! I usually don't let them get to me, you know that, but you also know right now, I am not as tough as I usually am, and I guess it got to me. Thank you for always being there. I luv U
Posted by  keepdreaming  on 2008-12-11 00:50:10 
  
Sure hope it wasn't me;/ I seem to have an "ugly" streak here and have been more of a Grumpy Bear than anything to so many very sensitive people. I like to think my comments are honest and constructive. I don't go out of my way to be mean or hateful unless I was angry about something. I suppose we can bite our tongues when we want to breathe flame at someone...but then where do we dispose of those flames? How do we let the fire go out without expressing it? And, who wants to deal with that if it's not directed at them? Do I want to hear from someone how another someone did a terrible thing that made them so angry? What can I do about it if I know nothing or can't really do anything about the anger it caused other than take that person away from the anger with a more pleasant diversion?

Take it all in stride.

Think about it...:P That's how I would end my comments a lil over a year ago.
Posted by  brainstormer  on 2008-12-11 16:33:12 
  
Good One Brainstormer...Yes, I must say, you have mellowed a bit over this past year. Hummmm... I wonder who could be partly responsible for that??? :) I guess we all have Angels, don't we??? ;)
Posted by  keepdreaming  on 2008-12-11 21:11:48 
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