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I am sooo upset, and who is to blame my husband or the baby blues?? i try so hard to be extreamly sexy for my husband i try to keep things alive for us but it just does not seem to matter any more i think he has lost all sexual interest in me. He tells me that he finds me very sexy and that he still gets hard for me but i think that is just hornyness ...he use to get hard just seeing me when i look sexy in my lingire for him now i get nothing. I bought this new swxt lingire and some clear stillettos that he said he liked and i put them on for him and in a plan bored tone he was like "thats nice yea thats nice" and then looks away. usually his jaw would drop or he wouldbe like oooow baby you look sexy.. but i got nothing. i dont think i am overreacting i just think he has honestly lost any lust for me so i give up no more sexy things no more love no more nothing he wants to go and look at his porn again whatever i dont care. what do you all think? i feel so depressed now.
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Posted by kate86 on 2008-02-18 17:23:27 | Rating: | Views: 490
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I feel for you, chick. I have the same problem with my hubby. So, honestly, awhile ago, I stopped dressing up for him. Lately, he's started to notice that I only put makeup, jewelery, or nice clothes on when I go into the outside world. And get this, he has the nerve to get pissed! Not that I don't dress up for him, but that I dress up for going out. He could care less what I wear. He never gets hard looking at me, anymore. Whenever we have sex, I have to prep him, everytime. I'm not selfish to want him to get hard when he sees me bend over or something every once in a while, right?
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Posted by CryDemiFey
on 2008-02-18 17:47:02
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Girl I had the same exact hing happen to me the other day. I put on a cute little outfit and struted into the family room where he was, of course eyes glued to the tv. So I said something about "look this still fits even after 2 kids" He glances, and says " yeah thats nice" and then continues to watch TV. I could have strangled him! But really it hurt so bad, cause it was like he has NO intrestr what so ever. I know I look good, and he knows othr people think I look good, so what's his problem. But no your not the only one, and it is very depressing. hit me back
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Posted by Nikki84
on 2008-02-21 14:02:56
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Unfortunately chick its not just in marraige... I have been with my partner for over 2years and it happened. I just thought it was me and thought i must not be enough etc.... but you know what just dont bother.... not in a bad way i just gave up...but when i went out i would do my self up and make my self feel good.....he would get so angry that i did this. Seriously sometimes men just need a smack around the head and a big sign saying HELLO DUMB ASS YOU IN THERE?!
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Posted by Rachbabe
on 2008-08-28 22:05:25
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