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She broke up with me because I am controlling...
Hello...

Well.... A couple of hours ago, my fiancee broke up with me. She says I am starting to become controlling. I suppose I am. This is the thing... I am currently not in the country, a few months back she started talking to one of her old friends whom she had a lot of issues with. Not only did she have issues but I did as well. Anyways, her friend was going to stay over tonight with her kids. Which is ok, I dont mind... It's been done before and i am used to it. What got me was... her friend is there with her brother too... which uses drugs and is a thief. My fiancee told me that if her friend stays then her brother has to stay also because he has no other form of transportation. Well I dont agree with that:

1. A few months ago we agreed that if im not around... no other man (who cares who the man is) cannot stay at the house without me being there. Keep in mind... this was agreed.

So she get's mad and breaks up with me. Just like that... no warning. Nothing. She says she cannot take it anymore. That I am becoming too controlling.

I am completely heart broken. I love this woman more than anything in this world. I dont know what to do. She asked me not to call her or text her... which is so hard to do but I am doing it. I guess I just needed to vent. Sorry to have wasted anyone time... if anyone reads this.
Posted by kataclizmic on 2008-04-26 23:19:09 | Rating: n/a | Views: 72


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Posted by
bucketothoughts
on 2008-04-27 00:18:08
 
I am sorry to hear about the break-up. I can only imagine the pain that you are feeling right now. I think that your fiancee feels hurt too, even though you may not think it. She probably told you not to call or text because she can't deal with hearing your voice...it would probably hurt too much. Maybe she is testing you to see if you will call her and talk things over. But I have to tell you that trust in a relationship is major. If you couldn't trust her with her friend and her friend's brother at the house, there is a problem. So what if they are hanging out. I'm sure your fiancee would have said something to the brother if he wipped out some drugs to get high off of in the middle of thier hanging out. Be sympathetic to the fact that she was trying to help her friend out by saying it was okay for him to come over. Give the girl some freedom and trust her. But if you truly love her, find a way to make it up to her. Send her a dozen roses telling her that you love her with all your heart and that you would do anything to make it up to her. If it is meant to be, it will find a way. Best of luck!
 
 


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