| She broke up with me because I am controlling... |
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Hello...
Well.... A couple of hours ago, my fiancee broke up with me. She says I am starting to become controlling. I suppose I am. This is the thing... I am currently not in the country, a few months back she started talking to one of her old friends whom she had a lot of issues with. Not only did she have issues but I did as well. Anyways, her friend was going to stay over tonight with her kids. Which is ok, I dont mind... It's been done before and i am used to it. What got me was... her friend is there with her brother too... which uses drugs and is a thief. My fiancee told me that if her friend stays then her brother has to stay also because he has no other form of transportation. Well I dont agree with that:
1. A few months ago we agreed that if im not around... no other man (who cares who the man is) cannot stay at the house without me being there. Keep in mind... this was agreed.
So she get's mad and breaks up with me. Just like that... no warning. Nothing. She says she cannot take it anymore. That I am becoming too controlling.
I am completely heart broken. I love this woman more than anything in this world. I dont know what to do. She asked me not to call her or text her... which is so hard to do but I am doing it. I guess I just needed to vent. Sorry to have wasted anyone time... if anyone reads this.
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