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Posted by kaley9 on 2007-10-02 09:59:27 | Rating: | Views: 138
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well that would all depend on your relationship. Have the two of you always been open about everything or has he always been this way? As far as his privacy, we are all entitled to have that, I love my space and privacy, but I also share with my signifigant other everything that I feel and think..good luck sweety.
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Posted by nikilynn1113
on 2007-10-02 10:03:49
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well, that would depend on if u trust him. Did he ever do anything to make u not trust him? If so then i would worry. But if not then if i were in ur place i would treat it as if it's all harmless until.... otherwise.
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Posted by tears2shed
on 2007-10-02 14:56:22
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I agree. it depends on whether you trust him or not.
I mean does he usually write e-mails as a way to meet people.
and it also depends on what kind of messages he's sending.
and if he's not doing anything wrong then why is he hiding it?
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Posted by Karen2933
on 2007-10-02 17:31:24
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You're his girlfriend, right? So, why does he think it is alright to e-mail other girls and women?
There are 2 reasons why I see something wrong here: (1) Even IF it IS completely innoccent, what would be the point? He is playing with fire because there is always the chance that he will meet someone that he wants to be more than friends with, then what? (2) When he knows just how much it bothers you, then, out of love and respect FOR YOU, he WILL stop! If he DOES NOT, you have a choice: continue staying in the relationship until he drops you for someone else (because you can be certain HE WILL), OR you can leave the relationship while you still have some dignity and respect for yourself left!
Life's too short! Don't settle for anything or anyone less than what you want in life! I wish you the best! :)
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Posted by Alice
on 2007-10-03 00:50:44
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Somethings not right with that picture..
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Posted by Wayne
on 2007-10-03 07:50:14
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This may sound a little harsh, but hear me out if you can...
I have had good portion of boyfriends who I could not trust, but I stuck it out any way, just to see if it would work. It didn't matter if they cheated on me or not, the fact that I could not trust them to begin with made the relationship 50 times more difficult than it would have if I could have trusted them. There was always that constant battle of "who were you talking to?" and "who was that girl?" More than 75% of the time "that girl" was no one important, but because I didn't trust the answer, there were many times where I forced "that girl" to be someone of importance.
I'm not saying that I forced my boyfriends in the past to cheat on me, but I surly didn't help them stay faithful by constantly thinking that they weren't.
My new motto for relationships is "if you can't trust him, leave him?" I'm 23 years old! There's no reason to stick it out with someone who I am always questioning on infidelity. If it is bad while we are just dating, it's not going to get any better when we get married. Some may view this differently, but at 23, I still have quite a bit of time to find a guy I can trust and have a great open relationship with.
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Posted by wildflower83
on 2007-10-03 08:11:17
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Thank you everyone that posted their opinions to try and help me. I want to trust him but i feel like he is trying to hide it and that makes me not want to trust him. I do love him alot but it is still very confusing i just do not know what to do.
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Posted by kaley9
on 2007-10-03 09:03:36
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