Sometimes, i look at the person to my right and admire their dimple, the person on my left has a crinkle and i have a scar on my leg thats not about to say goodbye. we all have something, somethings are ours for keeps and some, we have to say goodbye to at some point. People, those are ours for only a while and then they are gone, we get to hold on for only as long as a while and then we move on. things, u can hold on to forever. I am learning to let go of people, when they die, i can only hold on to the memory, when they just walk out of my life, its hard to let them go because they keep popping back in once in a while to say "hullo, just checking on you", and they dont know that the just checking on you puts cracks in the defences u have built. People are a God send, some we can live with and others..well, we dont necessarily want to always be with. You ask why am i writing this? because today, am focused on people, i have lost so many over the last couple of months and i need to focus on appreciating those that i still have. we like to think that we can do without so and so, but i am begining to realise that we can only do so much on our own, we might lose some along the way but we will always find someone or some other people along the way, the way we build our friendships with them, well, it will tell in the way our lives prosper.