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My beautiful cut. on 2007-12-14 04:18:50 |
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Dear Miranda,
You are real. The cuts are real and the pain from where they came is real.
What is not real, is your willing to become real with us.
You're holding back who you are to everyone and you're not letting anyone in, but us in ciberspace.
It pains me to think, that no-matter how far advanced we are from the animals, we still are not able to undersatnd ourselvevs.
What you are going through is caused by a mental misalignment. A condition that can be corrected, but only if you do your part and let someone know.
If you are comfortable in your sadness, and you insist that no-one will understand, then you will remain sad.
If you want the world to listen, then you'll have to reach out for some help.
It's up to you, only you have the power to heal yourself.
I hope you chose to get help, as I need you in my world. Without you, I will suffer another loss.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
The Seed on 2007-12-14 04:04:19 |
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Dear Alice,
There is nothing left to say except, Great Post!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
life is unfair on 2007-12-12 21:04:21 |
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Dear GCMAY,
First let me say , I'm sorry you are hurting so badly.
Then I must say, forget this guy, stand up and find out why you feel you need a guy to make you feel good.
Men have two heads, and they really don't know how to use the one that holds their brains.
When we are young, we will say or do anything neccessary to achieve one thing from women. We will, for certain women put in the time, but once we accomplished what we set out for, we won't hesitate to drop you like a rock.
Quit worrying about boys for now. and go accomplish the things that you really want from life. While your working on achieving your goals, you will be more likely to meet a guy of your caliber and similar interests. Someone who will be more adept at understanding your needs, and who will care about your feelings.
Only in fairy tales do you kiss the frog and get a prince, all the real world has to work at their relationships together in order to make them end happily ever after.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
bed!! on 2007-12-12 20:33:01 |
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Dear sexy,
Personally I'm not real hot on the idea of the anonymity thing here.
I've noticed that it tends to lead a few of the people blogging to lay on some heavy b---sh--, and leads to a lot of story telling.
Course then again I could be mistaken as for the purpose of blogging in the first place.
I have been under the belief that to post blogs, one should be interacting with those who they are wanting to read their blog. That they are wanting to share ideas, goals, and possibly what problems their day has wrought.
Anonymity to me is only so that we are not inundated with people who have no control about how they interact. (freaky stalkers)
So now to your headaches.
If you may think they are migrane, please seek professional medical help as soon as possible. Migranes can become totally incapacitating, and grow more frequent with time.
If it's good old fashion stress, find a few moments of time each day to relax. It sounds as though you deserve some "me" time.
And finally, so far I have noticed that there really isn't anything that you can not talk about here, but it is usually much better if you find a friend or friends in order to have private e-mail conversations with.
I've met many good people on this site, and am proud to say that my friend list is growing everyday.
I lost one of my dogs today and I know that I am going to have some friends that will be understanding and make my day a little easier.
Welcome to thoughts, hope to see some good, deep, thought provoking blogs from you.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Speak Out! on 2007-12-11 05:14:48 |
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Dear wetzelmark,
With very few words, caliope has said it all!
It's foolish to think anything other than money controls all of us.
Jesus himself could run for office today, and if he didn't play by the rules of those who hold the purse strings, he would not be allowed to stay in office.
No-matter how good a person is, they will never make a change in any government.
The things we have only to concern ourselves with now are, to do no harm!
Treat all, as you treat those you love!
It's way to late to save this planet, and the future is doomed. But that should not stop you or anyone from doing the things that are right!
Teach your children to love thy neighbor and to tolerate others shortcomings.
It doesn't matter what type of religion or lack of, that makes any difference. There is another life after this one, and what you do today will set the stage for what you will be doing in the next life period!
A very smart and famous man once told me and the world this:
The only time that you should look down upon another, is when you are reaching down to give them a hand up!!
To me, this is the way I live my life, and it has succeeded for me thus far.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
We all feel it on 2007-12-10 01:07:11 |
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Dear Tonya,
We as individuals are nothing more than a composistion of everyone we have ever come in contact with.
The only thing that distinguishes as individuals is the ability to accept or reject what we have learned fron others.
So while there may be some isolated experiences that we have not personally gone through, yes, you are right.
We are all exactly the same emotionally!
Throughout our growing lives, we are all subjected to the same emotions, for when it comes right down to it, there are only a limited number of emotions that we can feel, and that is what we base our actions, and reactions on.
The biggest problem we have today is; our parents are not guiding us through the range of emotions we have, and we are learning about how to behave from television.
That's why we are so greedy and self centered and unforgiving of other peoples faults. Because T.V. shows us how to get what's our's and if someone gets in your way, F--- them knock them out of our way!
Nope, your not wrong at all. You actually have hit the nail right on the head!
Good Post!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
"You tricked me!" on 2007-12-10 00:20:48 |
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Dear hater22,
Sounds like you have your hands full.
A woman who is as insecure as your woman is, will be a very trying thing for you to deal with alone.
Her lack of selfesteem is readily apparent, and is going to give you problems for a long time to come.
It's sad to say that with all your dedication and reassurance, until she gets help to deal with her problems, you are on a road that comes to no-good end.
If she and your child is what you really want, then you are going to have to get some professional help. This is something that you are not going to be able to fix all by yourself.
I will turn my karma on high for you and your's, so that maybe some good can be found.
Good luck my friends, I hope for nothing but the best for you in the future.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Shooting Tragedy on 2007-12-10 00:07:36 |
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Dear paul,
Great blog!
I personally am a gun enthusiast, and I used to enjoy hunting and the good food it brought.
I'm pretty messed up physically now and don't hunt anymore, but I sure do still love shooting.
Your question about outlawing guns, is one that I have put in considerable time pondering.
I am a law abiding citizen and if guns were outlawed I would obey the law, but outlawing guns because of the actions of crazy and criminal minds is not the answer.
I firmly believe that if you outlaw guns, then only the cops and the criminals will have guns.
That makes me very nervous!
If you look around the world to the countries that have anti gun legislation, you will see that criminals are always able to obtain firearms!
The second part of your queerie was what was as people should be more focused on.
People who flip and go on a killing spree, have given signs about their potential for violence years before they do something so horrible.
You look at who they are and what has happened to them their whole life, and the writing on the wall was obvious.
These are kids who were bullied and picked on, and ostrecised their entire life.
The kids around them make matters even worse by isolating him or her and joining in the name calling and belittleing the person.
Parents all jump up in protest when it is their kid that is getting bullied, but if their kid is doing the bullying, they actually take their childs side!
I have personally seen parents pat their kids on the back, agreeing with them by saying, " your right , that kid is wierd!"
It only takes a man and woman to have a child, but it takes a community to raise that child!
I don't know who I quoted there, but it rings of truth. We are all our brothers keepers, and it is partly our fault when we see a kid committ a mass murder.
Most often it is our behavior that has driven someone to the point of going beserk!
Great posting!
Keep up the deep thoughts and hard questions.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Helpless? Hopeless? Or just de-sensitized? on 2007-12-09 04:37:32 |
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Dear SavvyGranny,
I'm not totally convinced that it is just violence in video games that the children are exposed to, that makes them react so violently.
What they do in their games is one thing, but what they are exposed to at home everyday is more in line with where I feel the problem lies.
Domestic violence, parental violence, and the violence that is continuously blasted on the front pages of the news, seems like a more evil culprit than a video game. And let us not forget the biggest attractions at the box office.
These are the real violent things that the kids are exposed to, and this is real violence happening all around us.
People who are confronted with problems they cannot handle will act out what they have been exposed to in their everyday lives.
A kid knows that a game is a game, but slapping mom when she doesn't make dinner on time is real.
The shooting at Columbine is real, and for people who are not able to deal with their emotions will do what they see gets the attention that they are crying out for. Even if they are crying in silence.
The breakup of our family structures are just the lastest failure we have made as parents, and as a community.
I couldn't get away with any mischief when I was a kid, for surely someone who knew me or my family would report me to my parents.
I'm quoting someone here, but I can't remember who: "it only takes a mother and father to have a child, but it takes a community to raise that child."
We are the ones that have failed these kids, and they are left to turn to what they have seen to get the recognition they are craving.
Shame on all of us for failing them!
It is everyone who knew this kid, who as fault for not really hearing what he had been saying all along.
Mostly in this case it's the shrinks fault for not hearing this child!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
well look here! on 2007-12-09 04:16:29 |
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Dear shonenroulette,
I must agree that things are getting worse everyday, and that real change is desperately needed.
But I don't think that thoughts.com is going to be a soap box for you.
While I am looking for someone with compassion and honesty to lead us into the future.
I am not ready to follow someone who cannot express themselves without swearing every other word.
I personally don't think that you are truly brave enough to kill a person who is a nazi.
And if you are, then you need to find a peace within yourself to deffend someone who is being persecuted by a nazi organazation without stooping to killing.
Yes the world needs to change, but when it comes right down to it:
it is far to late to stop what is going to happen in the future now.
The life of this planet has already gone to far to be reversed now, and the only way to prevent the coming of the end, would need for every man, woman, and child to change the way we are using up our resourses, and that is never going to happen
Greed has signed our death certificate and we are certainly doomed to die.
I don't believe in the bible, but I do believe in Revelations!
The end is near!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
p.s. I'm an ex Marine and I know what it is to kill.
Do that and you will be changed forever!
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| Posted in
school on 2007-12-09 03:40:45 |
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Dear kelli357,
Been there done that, and I agree, schoolwork sucks!
Can't you just wait for the day you get to go to work and have everything the way you want?
Yep going to work doing the same thing day after day, and always having your boss making you do more work than you hired in for!!
Yeah life will be so good when you can have your own place, pay your own bills , and make your own decisions!!
It will be an absolutely wonderful world if you drop out of school, cause then you can be a minimum wage earner the rest of your life, and you can spend all your idle time dreaming about the new cars, the vacations, the traveling, the big houses, and all the fun things you will not be doing cause you can't even pay your light bill!
Things may suck now, but if you make a consious decision to get the most out of school now, then you won't have to suffer the headaches of being a young single mom without any food on the table for your kids.
Me thinks thou dost protest too much!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Painkiller that kills..... on 2007-12-09 03:28:38 |
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Dear ulfjon,
I really do get your point as I have now been on pain killers for six years.
I have researched the drug that I am on and the damage it is doing to my body. That was one of the main reasons I had for trying other methods of relief.
They are doing clinical studies with konche poison right now, but so far the statistics look pretty bad.
While most people in the trials are getting up to 100% relief, there is approximately 38% suicides with the medication.
All drugs are capable of accidently killing someone, and antibiotics have a worse record than painkillers, so when it comes down to it, YOU are responsible for what meds you take, and therefore you must research them yourself.
It's always easy to point your finger, but please remember that when you protest, because you may have lost a loved one. You make it that much harder for people who have to endure pain everyday of their lives.
Celebrex is an absolutely devistating drug that has really good results for people with severe arthritis, and unless you, yourself knows the side effects, then you shouldn't be able to hold someone else responsible because it might kill you some other way.
Unless you happen to be someone who has to suffer in pain, 24-7 please keep your protests to a minimum and be absolutely 100% sure about your numbers, before you get everyone up in arms.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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12/06/2007 on 2007-12-07 03:44:39 |
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Dear just me,
Even if I tell you about all the bullshit I went through when I was your age, it wouldn't help you a bit.
I can only tell you, that if you get yourself a job, save your money the best you can, then you will be better prepared for the day that you are going to be on your own.
My family was very disfuntional like yours, and I had to leave home when I was thirteen. I didn't have a job, and I ended up being hungry a lot. ( I once ate unripe green apples for a week out of an orchard and man will that give you the shit's)
Sounds like your'e having to grow up a bit faster than you may want to, but if you can find a job and a place to live, and you make a plan of what you want to accomplsh, then life won't be so hard.
You need to do these things without relying on a guy or anyone else, cause they will always let you down.
The story of a princess kissing a frog, then living happily ever after is just that, a story!
That is not the way it will come together for you in the real world!
Your going to have to count on yourself to get the things you want from life.
Don't think that a boy and a baby will be the answers to your prayers, because you'll most likely loose the boy once you have a baby, and then you'll be left alone to raise a child.
I know that you would not want to raise a kid by yourself and then have to kick the kid out of your house the way your mother wants to kick you out.
Yep. get a job, save your money, find an apartment, and make your own way for a while. Once you get finacially stable, you can then think about furthering your education so that you may find a career.
The first steps are going to be the hardest and there are going to be many nights you will be so alone, but if you set your mind to it, then you will succeed!
I know that it is harder for a young woman, but then you women are a lot stronger than you give yourselves credit for.
I wish you all the best, and I will put my karma on high for you.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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12/06/2007 on 2007-12-07 03:44:28 |
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Dear just me,
Even if I tell you about all the bullshit I went through when I was your age, it wouldn't help you a bit.
I can only tell you, that if you get yourself a job, save your money the best you can, then you will be better prepared for the day that you are going to be on your own.
My family was very disfuntional like yours, and I had to leave home when I was thirteen. I didn't have a job, and I ended up being hungry a lot. ( I once ate unripe green apples for a week out of an orchard and man will that give you the shit's)
Sounds like your'e having to grow up a bit faster than you may want to, but if you can find a job and a place to live, and you make a plan of what you want to accomplsh, then life won't be so hard.
You need to do these things without relying on a guy or anyone else, cause they will always let you down.
The story of a princess kissing a frog, then living happily ever after is just that, a story!
That is not the way it will come together for you in the real world!
Your going to have to count on yourself to get the things you want from life.
Don't think that a boy and a baby will be the answers to your prayers, because you'll most likely loose the boy once you have a baby, and then you'll be left alone to raise a child.
I know that you would not want to raise a kid by yourself and then have to kick the kid out of your house the way your mother wants to kick you out.
Yep. get a job, save your money, find an apartment, and make your own way for a while. Once you get finacially stable, you can then think about furthering your education so that you may find a career.
The first steps are going to be the hardest and there are going to be many nights you will be so alone, but if you set your mind to it, then you will succeed!
I know that it is harder for a young woman, but then you women are a lot stronger than you give yourselves credit for.
I wish you all the best, and I will put my karma on high for you.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Shift work sucks!! on 2007-12-07 03:01:28 |
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Hey Hey Horny,
Good to see you posted something!
No all thoses exclamaition points aren't bothering us !
Really good to hear that you haven't got caught up in the clicks.
Got your first paycheck huh? Great!
Just make sure you keep paying your taxes. LOL
My brother works a swing shift and he has really wierd schedules: he is on nights for four days, then he gets three days off. When he next goes to work he will be on days for eleven days, then three days off. The next time he goes back, he is once again on nights. Talk about not being able to have a life!!!!
I never know when to call him, and if he does answer the phone, he can be up and energetic, or be grouchy and tells me to leave him alone, that he was on his way to bed.
Gotta love the little grouch. LOL
Good to see you back, hope your ready for the holidays!!!! LOL
Okay that's about as many of explanation points that I can get!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Iran on 2007-12-05 01:29:17 |
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Hey jalex,
Actually Iran is nothing to worry about, because Ahmadinejad knows if he were to ever deploy a nuclear device, the retaliation would wipe his country off the face of the earth.
The true concern is a nuclear weapon in the hands of a terroist organazation, which Iran would not have second thoughts about selling one once they had the technology.
It is a sad state of humanity that world leaders are all cowards. They themselves are never willing to lead the charge, but are qutie vocal about sending the common folks to their deaths.
Yes even Bush would run like a coward if he had to walk the streets of D.C. Without the secret servicemen who put their lives on the line for him, he could not stand on his own two feet.
But as long as we follow our leaders we are going to be sacrifeced over and over again. That has it always has been, and that is the way it is always going to be.
The leaders of all the countries of the world are so far removed from real people, that they have no-idea what it is like to have to work and struggle for a living.
When it comes down to it, they are all just puppets for the people with the real money.
A man or woman might begin polotics with an eye for real change, but when you get to the bottom line, even in comunism money rules period!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Another Random Question on 2007-12-05 01:03:34 |
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Dear Fang,
I think there are only two things that I would have to change.
The first would have to be greed.
Greed, is the one thing that has always been foremost in peoples emotions that take them to the point of killing. It is what drives them to take what does not belong to them, and then once they have aquired more than they could ever need, they become so jaded that they will just stand by as others die.
As long as it doesn't affect them personally, they can turn a blind eye towards what happens in the rest of the world.
The other thing I would change is: Religion.
Throughout history, religion has lead to most of the most devastating wars.
The religious right has always protected their leaders, and their leaders have let them sacrifice and suffer, and even die for what they believe.
Religious leaders have always saw their own religion as the only true and right religion.
So in my way of thinking these are the two most important things we would have to change in order for the world to get along in peace.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
at a loss for words... on 2007-12-04 03:04:27 |
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Dear Ev,
Thanks for a great posting.
Sounds like you have a lot to scream, a lot cry, a lot to laugh, and a lot to share!
People do make judgemnets and tend to stick labels on us, but you sound as if you have made a decission not to listen anymore. ( good for you)
I am willing to bet that you will make a good life for yourself and that you will find happiness in your being.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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| Posted in
Crazy Mondays on 2007-12-04 02:53:58 |
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Hey Hey rubyaaloo,
Sounds like you have stumbled into a group of freinds who are going to last a lifetime.
You must be absoulutely in heaven, not having to deal with a bunch of drama kings and queens.
Bet you wish that all of life could be so blissful?
Great post!
Makes me feel good just to know that you and your friends have found eachother and are enjoying your time together.
It does concern me though!
How's the grades doing ? LOL
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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new on 2007-12-02 02:00:53 |
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Dear wandering,
It's good to hear that you are having a wonderful life!
Personally I think you were having a brain fart,(telling everyone that you have a lot of money) cause now there are going to be people coming out of the woodwork trying to hit you up for money.
So forget about talking about it, and instead tell us of your wonderful life.
There are many people here that are suffering some hard times, and you might be able to help them with your enthusiasism and encouragement.
Share with us about how you make your life so good, and about how you make others around you feel good too!
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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Hope on 2007-12-02 01:50:58 |
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Dear misschief31,
Your topic is so contreversial that I wasn't sure if I should comment.
I am truely torn between the two sides of abortion, but then I come down to what is a persons rights?
When it involves pregnacy I feel it is 100% the rights of a woman to make her own decision period end of dicussion.
I feel the same holds true with doctor assisted siucide.
I live in a state of pain every day of my life due to an accident back in march of 2000.
Government has tied the hands of my doctors so it is immpossible for me to get pain pills strong enough to relieve more than half of the pain.
I was physically, sexually, and mentally abused throughout my childhood.
I have been diagnosed with bi-polarism along with post traumatic stress disorder.
If it were not for my personal belief in my God, I would have long ago taken my own life.
That is where I draw the line between what I want for me, and what is of anyone elses business.
I feel the same is true when a woman decides to have an abortion, it is nobodies business but her own.
There are many practical reasons for an abortion; (rape, incest, deformation) just to name a few.
You should not protest things that do not affect you personally, and I'm willing to bet that you don't know a damn thing about anyone woman who finds herself needing a legal abortion.
You religious self righteous radicals have brought about more death and wars than anywoman who decided to end a pregnancy!!
Mind your own business for I am sure that you have sinned way more than most.
Love & Peace,
jwcj
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