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So I have this small crush on a fellow co-worker, but I don't think I would take it any further than just innocent flirting. I think I just enjoy the attention of another man. Having two kids at home, and working opposite schedules my husband and I have very little time spent together. Heck being alone for that matter. Every waking minute of our lives is spent on either the kids, the housework, or our careers so that leaves little time for us. Living in a new place far from home also leaves us without babysitters so going out is out of the question for the time being. Sometimes I feel like we've lost the romance as cliched as it sounds. He never does the little things anymore. He used to leave little notes in the morning to find when I woke up or just buy me flowers for no reason. I've tried doing the same for him, but to no avail I've gotten nothing in return. It's like we've fallen into some routine. I feel like I'm spilling my guts to Dr. Phil right now. I don't even wanna get into how often we don't have sex and when we try the interruptions are never too far behind.
So back to the work crush...he's nice, funny, good looking, a smartass (one of my best qualites) and he's just a good person to be around. He's that guy at work that everyone loves. I doubt he has anything for me...I'm married and have two kids who wants that drama, but we occasionaly exchange glances, and uhhh i could scream right now! for no other reason than I'm sexually frustrated and my kids are driving me up the wall...
so now that I must go separate the children I would really love any advice that you my fellow bloggers can give me especially if you've ever been in my shoes....thank you!!!
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Posted by justpennies on 2008-07-18 12:04:43 | Rating: | Views: 54
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Ah yes, the innocent work flirtation. Enjoy the energy that comes from it but don't feed into it. The spark is something married people must suffer without because our joys are deeper and more lasting. The danger only lies in putting sexual energy into another man, because it can make sex with your husband less satisfying (a self fullfilling prophecy). This is all just my personal experience. Good luck!
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Posted by barbeec
on 2008-07-18 20:14:06
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