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I know more than half the population in the world has though about what it would be like to have a perfect relationship, or even that perfect person to be in a relationship with. But honestly, why should we paint this big beautiful portrait for ourselves only to never live the day to see it? I do believe we should all use the "wishful thinking" tactic, but when it comes down to relatinships, why not be realistic.
Of course it does make me feel better to wonder if there is there is that one guy out there that has every quality i am looking for. I mean, don't get me wrong because I have a wonderful boyfriend, he just sometimes says the wrong things to me or doesn't say anything at all.
How does one know when you have the right person in your life? And how long should you be with someone before you actually start considering being with that person for the rest of your life? These questions have been going through my mind a whole lot lately. Maybe it is because its the holidays and I am female, lol. No but really, I sometimes feel like I want to be with my boyfriend forever, and then he says one thing that makes me wonder maybe he's not the one. I don't know, I will try to just not think about this and enjoy the time we are together. It will happen if its meant to be..... |
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Posted by justcurious on 2007-12-26 15:43:17 | Rating: | Views: 69
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those feelings are the worst, but sometimes i find i have to outweigh his stupidness with the feelings i am overwhemled with, ive learnt to take the good with the bad, but never plan your relationship beyond tommorow, never put those kind of expectations onto someone thats meant to fail you, just as you will fail him, but through the imperfe3ct times, you will find something that keeps you there, that small spark of a star that allows you to stay, as long as you have that, keep going. There is no 'perfect' relationships, just imperfect people making beautiful relationships.
like you sauid it will happen if its meant to
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Posted by MissBB
on 2007-12-27 03:30:16
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you just know when its forever, but you dont suddenly click and say 'hey this is it!' you just realise one day that you are more than comfortable together, and you will learn to at least like the silly things he says, we all have to get used to our partners annoying habbits and they way they handle emotional stuff, especially with words!
good luck, and i hope you have found the one, and you are right, there is no point in holdng out for the perfect man, because until you come to know each other completely and see if you fit together you will not know if he is perfect for you.
but enjoy the differences, perfect would be dull, and i think you know it!
besides we are all annoying, i know i drive him nuts with my silly habbits xx
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Posted by missmarie
on 2007-12-28 08:48:52
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Take a good look at the relationship he has with his parents...That right there will tell you more than enough about him......If he is a good person to his parents, then you know he will be a good husband...........I think!!!!!!!!!Don't take only that in to consisteration though..What kind of friend is he? Does he like the same things as you? Would he drop everything he is doing to help a stranger on the side of the road????Just watch him and learn.....Good luck...
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Posted by Hollis
on 2008-01-02 07:46:21
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