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There's this guy at work, lets call him Ty [ sounds like tie], he messages me the other day on fb.
TY:
This is kinda corny but i forgot to ask you while you were at work this morning because it was early but i was just thinking since you're kinda cool, would you like to chill with me sometime or something, nothing serious if so just hit me up 555-555-5555.
ME:
It's not corny, its kinda cute. I'd love to chill with you, as long as it is "nothing serious" because I'm seeing someone.
Well that's where it started. We have been calling and texting each other like every day. I have been hiding it from T. Although nothing is really going on. We haven't kissed, had sex, or anything like that or even talked about it. Actually I'm not even physically attracted to him but I don't have any friends here so it's nice to just hang out with someone other than T. Again I love my boyfriend but we've been arguing a lot lately and plus I need more people than him to talk to. I know your thinking that if I'm not doing anything wrong that I should just tell T because if not, and he does find out it will look really bad, but T's not the type of boyfriend that is ok with me even talking too often to any other guy, so he would totally flip about me actually hanging out with them. I can't really think of any way for me to convince him that Ty and I don't have bad intentions. I can't just introduce him because he was kinda rude when he met my childhood bestfriend Tim when we went to Boston last month and I don't want to scare my new friend away. I'm also scared to shake my already rocky relationship because again I'm sure T would not be ok with it.
As for me and Ty's intentions they're pure as far as I know. Sometimes some harmless flirting but I like I said I'm not even attracted to him and i've already told him that we can't be anymore than friends. I even accentuated my feelings by telling him about a guy that I used to be friend with while i was in another relationship who cut me off months later when he realized that I was seriously not interested. So far he hasn't overstepped any boundaries and I don't think he will but I do tend to believe the best in people.
In the mean time though i don't know what to do and whether or not I should continue keeping him a secret?
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Posted by justaj on 2008-09-15 15:01:33 | Rating: | Views: 81
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If you truly love T, you must break it off now.
Let me tell you my story:
I am married w/2 kids and love my wife dearly, over the past 4 months I have seen a change in her. She was alive, loud, confident and interested in sex. Now I found out she was having an emotional affair. I know that it never got beyond kissing and she broke it off before I found out. I gathered evidence and I confronted her and she admitted it. She told me that he lit something in her, made her feel sexy and like a woman, not just a mom and wife.
But now I am in more pain than I ever knew was possible. My heart has truly been broken.
Now, my problems are as follows:
She still sees the guy occasionally at work, and him still lurking out there bothers me.
I want to confront him, but she wishes I wouldn't because of the embarrassment.
How do I trust her again, she seems upset but only because of the inconvenience, she is not being as tender or reassuring as I would like and I am for the first time very needy of her love.
Part of me is thinking that if she cant be here for me now in my time of need, perhaps I should get out of this. I may leave this relationship because of this.
Please be carefull and remember that when you want something you must consider the price.
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Posted by hurt
on 2008-09-16 16:45:19
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