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Hey, its been some time, I was busyduring the holidays and making some major changes in my life....I am no longer in relationship and I am celebrating my freedom. Ya know that feeling right....when you are involved it's like, "is this it?" and when you are not involved it's lik e"why me?" and I have decided that I dont want to be neither. I am celebrating my freedom because relationships are a bit over rated ya know. Like, foe example, the only thing that reminds people that they are single are all these commercials of chat lines and all this secret crush stuff...do you really wanyt to share everything? I dont. I am happy to be single because I can only worry about me and my feelings, not the man in my life. I was blessed with inner and physical beauty and that has been used against me in a relatonship, the ex's insecurity about themselves ends up being my problem. I have never felt such heartache and only in a relationship that occurs, family and pets dont count..thats unconditional! In a relationship ya always gotta worry about trust and even the most loyal do have a moment of weakness from time to time.....Dont lie! Cheating takes on many forms and does not need to be sexual...it can be emotional and mental cheating I heard. I probably could pick a few good examples of that but that would be digging up an old and forgotten one...Celebrating single life is awesome, I am happier and look forward to meeting new people minus the nagging feeling of guilt of " did I cross that line" between being friendly or being flirty. Happiness draws people to me and I am having a great time being myself and free from guilt or worry.
Anyways, life is way too short to be sitting on the couch eating and feeling sad about the ex boyfriend or chic....if you want love or need love, begin with you first and make sure you are taking care of all yours needs first before you explore your options...and keep it real. |
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Posted by jjlmrken on 2008-02-19 17:55:42 | Rating: | Views: 17
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amen to that
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Posted by mamamyrt
on 2008-02-20 05:33:06
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