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   The man joke: "If a man makes a sound in the woods and there is not a woman there to hear him is he still wrong?" I am going to share some advice with any man who want to read this about getting along with a woman, and I don't want to hear from any women who want te tell me how wrong I am. I get enough of that at home.
     At some point your girlfriend is going to say, "We need to talk." What this means really is, "I need to talk." What she will talk about is how unhappy she is, and how you make her feel, and her feelings, yadda, yadda, and so on." Just sit there and listen. Pat her on the arm and tell her you understand. Give her a hug. Tell her you need to thnk things over.
      At that point I advise you to go to the bar and have a beer and watch some sports for a couple of hours. Then go home and tell her you realized how she feels and you care deeply. It doesn't matter if you get it or not. That's not the important part. The important part is that she is right and you validate her feelings.
     The last thing I want to say is that it really doesn't matter if you really understand what all the hullaballoo is about. Just make sure you don't tell her you are right or that she is wrong. That won't work for you and it will make the whole thing drag on way too long. Just be sorry and remember the important part, her feelings.

Posted by jimvint on 2009-11-05 10:46:35 | Rating:

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what are you, a women living as a guy?

Posted by skip1957 on 2009-11-05 10:53:36

I disagree with this. The best way to get along with women is to make them realize how awesome you are. If they aren't head over heels for you, then you aren't awesome enough to captivate their attention, and therefore you should let them go if they so choose.

Women stay with me because they need/want to, not because I trick them.

Posted by williamnewton on 2009-11-05 11:00:29

Ok. Let me get this straight. You say a man is supposed to walk around like a woman's whims are broken glass. Don't step on them. It doesn't work that way with me. What are the consequences if she leaves me? I have the peace and quiet that I always wanted, in the first place. I wasn't born to be a woman's butler.

Posted by GeorgesBlog on 2009-11-05 11:33:39

Hey I have been told that I am crazy for being perpared for disasters
Dealing with a group of people in Crisis who are in fear of death and/or
losing everything in thier lives from fire hurricane, etc but who are you ?
as a joke in my family we tell each other to say YES DEAR to the Wife
but it is that we have a long term relationship to reason some things out
a man has pride,... his ego will not allow some things done

Posted by Lance629 on 2009-11-06 22:19:16