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If you read my about me i told you that i had a sister. Well theres alot to tell about her, lets just say shes in thereopy now and probably will be for a while, and this is why. When i was in 8th grade my sister was a sophmore in highschool. In my high school there are alot of cliques, your either hot or your not. Its cruel. So my sister was one of the popular kids that every guy would die to get with. Her friend michelle was talking to this kid matt, but actually liked my sister. All my sisters best friends started ganging up on her because matt started talking to her. If my sister would go to a party she would come home crying every night because the girls threw food and stuff at her or they cursed her out. This kid Dan started talking to my sister to make her feel better and to be there for her when the girls are mean. They where really good friends anad JUST friends, he lived around from the corner from me. Michelle started makaing fun of her even more for talking to this kid, and when Dan asked my sister out on a date my sister had to say no because she had a boyfriend alread. Dan and Michelle then ganged up on my sister to make her life misereable. Dan went syco trying to run me over with a car, and Michelle never let my sister down for talking to matt, even though they wherent going out or hooking up. They kept harrasing my sister and even the police had to be brought into this. My sister stoped going out and basically stoped having a life. All her friends turned against her and she had no one, welll except her family and me.
My sister was convinced that her life was horriable. She had no friends or anything, she didnt even want to go back to school. She started taking everything out on herself, like cutting her. Im the only one that actually noticed. My parents are so clueless and they just want everything to be okay annd not admitt my sister has a problem. After my sister got over her cutting phase, she went onto not eating and if she did eat she would throw it up. Starting at around 110 she went down to 85 pounds. A 17 year old girl 85 pounds, yeah i know scary. This all happened in a matter of 5 months? i think. I always look out for my sister but as this wasa going on a i didnt know what to do. I was the only one in my family that noticed every week she would get skinnyer and skinnyer. Also the only one that notice that she was only drinking green tea becauase its some kind of diet thing and barley eating any food. Im a very light sleeper, and if someone gets up in the middle of the night i hear it, and everynight around 3 in the morining my sister would get up and puke downstairs. I would just keep telling my self this cant be hahppening. I would tell my parents that she was getting skinnyer and skinnyer but no one would listen to me, until it was to the point that she could die. In school eveeryday last year i was the one that had to answer everyones questions, Why is your sister getting so skinny? and everytime i would lie saying that she was sick with a stomach problem. My sister would count her calories everyday and if she had more then she wanted she would jsut not eat the nenxt day. And you wanna know how i no this, well she has a book in her room that says evrything that shes been through. She used to write in it 24/7 abaout her life and i would read it seacretly. So my parents finally got the picture that my sister needed help. They sent hehr to doctors and theropists and it came out that she was using laxidives, the stuff that makes you shit. it came out in the test results but she still denys it today.
The doctors made her gain wheight but she did it in the wrong way. Her mind totally changed or somthing becuase all she would do was eat crap for like 3 weeks and gained back about 50 pounds. She was screwing up her hormones so badly, but atleast she wasnt skinny anymore. She is now getting better slowly and going to the gym to loose some weight because she is now oiver weight. She always seems preasured by me becuase i am always an asctive person that always plays sports and skinny. EVery since we were little she would compare her self to me. So now when i wanna work out just to tone, or eaet a salad once in a while she gets mad and jealous its weird. My sister still needs alot of help and i always still try to help her. Everyone thinks she is still gettig better but about a month ago i herd her throwing up again. All of this becuase of those bitch girls that think they are so cool for making peoples lives miserabe.
You should never make fun of anyone even if they are weird or diffrent from you, becuase you never know what you are doing to the person. Like my sister it ruined her life forever, and she will never be her old happy self. thanks alot. |
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Posted by jerseygirl on 2008-01-20 00:48:16 | Rating: | Views: 216
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the people that did that to your sister should be . . . hurt . that's just not right . i know you already know that and everything , but it still sucks . my sister's not that bad , but i worry about her too , she's popular but she already has self-image issues and i'm scared that the smallest little thing will set her off , again , nothing as bad as your sister , but i worry about even that , i can't imagine what it's like for you / was like .
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Posted by captainlola
on 2008-01-20 18:09:19
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i'm hurt to hear this. I do kno your point though. girls are vicious. they really really are. they will do anything to ruin another person, and afterwards, they feel great about themselves. those who hurt others for pleasure, usually have self issues themselve. you're a great moral support to her i'm sure. give me some names. i'll beat some ass. nobody should be treated that way.
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Posted by bearding
on 2008-01-21 22:40:47
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hah yea i wish we could be them up, but thanks for your support
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Posted by jerseygirl
on 2008-01-21 23:06:43
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