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What is cheating? When two people are married and one starts calling 1-900 numbers? Would anyone consider that cheating? If the spouse just called the 900 number once? ....or how about like five or six times a day...obsessively for two or three months in a row... is it cheating then? I know, that's like an obsession...but I'm just asking. Okay.."notthisgirl" blogged me and mentioned something interesting..if you've filed for divorce..but it's not finalized..is it considered cheating to go out? A divorce can be tied up in the courts for months and apparently years? What constitutes cheating when going out? Going out period? I'm just a girl who's looking for answers in a world where dating has not even been a consideration for a long, long, time.
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Posted by jenna on 2007-09-03 12:31:40 | Rating: | Views: 228
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Everyone's oppinion of cheating is different. I say if it makes you uncomfortable and cheated then yes its considered cheating. As far as the divorce issue if the relationship is over between you and you've both said it and you're doing what needs to be done to finalize it then going out: to the movies, dinner...etc isn't cheating. Anything further...maybe. lol Sorry if this doesn't really help. Good luck.
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Posted by DBLR3120
on 2007-09-03 12:42:06
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if you didnt want to file for divorce ask him his fantasys role play and then maybe he wouldnt be calling the 900 numbers and you wouldnt be worried about cheating
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Posted by mitchell
on 2007-09-03 12:48:09
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Mitchell seems to think my concern for cheating has to do with insecurity in my marriage. It has more to do with justification for divorce.
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Posted by jenna
on 2007-09-03 13:28:51
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Lol for confusing ya... but thanks for commenting back and your support. Was the divorce a joint decision?
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Posted by DBLR3120
on 2007-09-03 13:35:25
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sorry for confusing ya***
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Posted by DBLR3120
on 2007-09-03 13:35:48
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There's a lot of different definitions of cheating. It may not feel like cheating to you, but does the court think differently? Is there a custody case involved. Those are some things to consider.
My personal view is if both parties have agreed to divorce, then it is not cheating. The relationship is over in the eyes of the two people who formed the relationship in the first place. Just because the "process" is long and ordeal, doesn't mean both of you can't start to move on.
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Posted by drifter
on 2007-09-03 18:27:27
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Cheating is a word im very hate.Based on my personal experience, me and my partnerhad a little vacation to an island, Were go on the beach and stay for 3 days and 2 nights. Were both working with different job and were not living with the same house. What hjappen was, i caught him that he's cheating on me. I read different messages on his phone that he dating another woman. And i saw their pictures taken from his phone. They are so sweet thought from the shoots.
From that time i realized he was cheating on me. Now, im asking what should i do to be able to ask him whats going on,, Eventhough our family knows about the status of our relationship. Both parties are aware what's goin on. I think he's really cheating on me.. Eventhough i take care a lot of him. HUHUhuuuhhuu!!
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Posted by maszy_bong
on 2007-09-04 14:48:57
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Just because something is the law doesn't mean it's right.
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Posted by Back2square1
on 2007-10-03 22:26:53
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