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So there’s this guy, (there’s always a guy) and we have just started seeing each other and things have been going really good. I like him so much, but we did kinda rush into it. Don’t get me wrong, I love the way things are going and everything about him… except one thing. There’s this other girl. Typical situation for me, it can never be a simple you like me, I like you; there’s always got to be a problem. Anyways, I just don’t know if I’m overreacting or if this is something that I should be worried about.
Before him and I started seeing each other he really liked this girl. He told her how he felt and she told him that she just wanted to be friends, so he moved on and it just so happened to be with me. But, now that we’ve been seeing each other, this other girl has been texting and calling him non-stop. And mostly when I’m with him. He says that they’re just friends and I think I believe that… but we’ve kinda been getting serious and I feel like he hasn’t been honest with her about it. They hung out the other day (just as friends-so I’m told) and he told me that after they hung out she wanted him to stay the night at her place and was hitting on him hard core and I just don’t know what to do. I mean if he really really liked me, I think he would have told this girl to back off and leave him alone, but he’s just too nice and doesn’t want to completely shut her out. I don’t mind him being friends with girls, some of my closet friends are of the opposite sex. I just don’t want to get hurt in the long run. I know he really cares about me, but what if he’s just using me to get her jealous enough to want him back? And what if he still has those feelings for her that he did before I was even in the picture? I’ve talked to him about this situation and how I feel about the whole thing and he just always tells me that he only wants to be with me and how their just friends and I have nothing to worry about. But when he tells me that she was all over him… I’ve just been cheated on so many times, and now I’m pretty sure this guy is completely perfect for me… I just don’t want lose him… to her or because I’m too paranoid/jealous. What should I think?
Loves 
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Posted by jackiemarie on 2007-12-17 15:35:18 | Rating: | Views: 77
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just tell him everything yu just told us... and if he cares he'll understand and stop hanging with her as much
orrrrrrr...
yu could ask him if all three of yu guys could hang and then she'll relize yu guys are closer then she thinks and back off.
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Posted by Thegirl101
on 2007-12-17 15:57:44
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if he's a man--not a boy--he'll be honest with whoever he needs to tell something profound to. he'll either tell her that he doesn't like her that way anyway and to back off, or tell you that he still likes her but likes you too--that would suck. just please don't let them run all over you and get taken advantage of; you deserve respect and a man who cares enough to give it. if she's coming onto him and he doesn't feel the same way about her and he isn't telling her, then he is a wimp. i had a similar situation about three or four months into my relationship. my bf actually dated this girl for a little while right before me and then they broke up and remained friends. she started calling him alot and wanting to go play tennis and places with him and i told him i didn't like it. he stopped talking to her immediately because as he told me, "nothing is worth losing you over. i will stop talking to her if you want me to." and he did. a man who cares for YOU will do just that because he doesn't care whether he loses her as a friend if he gains you. ;-)
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Posted by ninjanann
on 2007-12-17 16:17:12
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I'm pretty much with Ninjanann...
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Posted by Frankly
on 2007-12-18 00:46:29
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Well,,im sinical,, as you have read i have been having a few issues, with guys and mates, and im on the other side, im the evil mate.I didnt mean for it to happen, but this girl seems danagerous,,she is obviously into your guy,maybe not into him alot, she likes the game, when he told her how he felt she told him were to go, as soon as he moves on she thinks, well hang on, what about me! I think you need to be honest with your guy, but i no even the nice's people can do somethings we regret,be care full. I wouldnt trust this girl as far as i could through her!! xx Take careXX
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Posted by SecertGal
on 2007-12-19 07:48:01
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Well,,im sinical,, as you have read i have been having a few issues, with guys and mates, and im on the other side, im the evil mate.I didnt mean for it to happen, but this girl seems danagerous,,she is obviously into your guy,maybe not into him alot, she likes the game, when he told her how he felt she told him were to go, as soon as he moves on she thinks, well hang on, what about me! I think you need to be honest with your guy, but i no even the nice's people can do somethings we regret,be care full. I wouldnt trust this girl as far as i could through her!! xx Take careXX
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Posted by SecertGal
on 2007-12-19 07:48:02
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