My most recent ex emailed me this question yesterday. I would like to straight out say “no, we’re not anymore”. But this will probably make him ask why, and I don’t want to give him the answer. I mean, how do I explain to him that I looked at his facebook regularly (stalking him, in effect) until I saw an insinuative wall post by some random girl that made me freak the hell out? I was freaking out so much that my friend (who was with me at the time) told me “oh my god you HAVE to get over him!” then took control of my facebook and removed him from my friends.
So it was her doing, really. Not mine… But regardless, I could have stopped her. Then again, I’m glad I didn’t ‘cause all I kept doing was torturing myself every time I looked on his profile: reading posts from other girls, wondering if he’s getting with them… Geez I was going crazy jealous over every single girl that messaged him. What kind of life is that!?
I could just ignore the email… Fake ignorance. Lead him to believe that I never received it. Or that my proverbial dog ate it. It’s such a stupid question to ask, anyway. If he’s been trying to look at my profile but realised that he couldn’t see it, then obviously it means we’re “not friends”. Or I could handle this maturely and admit that “no, we are not friends on facebook anymore”, and say that “it’s of no business of yours to ask my reasons for removing people”.
Well, I think that’s the winner.
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