Thoughts.com Blogs - To Know Somebody

Is it just not fair to know somebody from others? I meant most of the time we know somebody's friend from that somebody so of course, we will sometimes to hear somebody to talk about that friend and then somehow you know some stuffs about this somebody's friend. And perhaps, you will have big chance to judge this somebody's friend the same way as somebody told you so. But the truth is that not everything this somebody told you is exact how this somebody's friend act like. Yes, it is just cruel if this somebody just hate this friend a lot.

Me, myself, had experienced to be judged for things I did not do just because somebody told somebody and then it turned out to be things I should take responsibility for it. I hated it that time but it's just so easy for everybody to buy those stories from the story tellers.

Okay, here is what I am thinking about today: I met a guy and I think he is very cool. He was somebody introduced by a friend of ours. That friend told us he is a nice guy and didn't have further judgement about him. Well, we were all curious so we asked does he hang out in the bar once every week? And did he bring different girls? The friend said, yes, once every week & different girls he brought everytime and mostly they are his students. Humm..okay, so I am just one of those girls he asked for phone numbers. Not really something special happened.

Forget it then...I really cannot find any excuse to convince myself to go to the bar with him this Friday night. And yes, what that friend told me about him did affect my point of view about him a lot. Maybe I am wrong about him or maybe I should not take the things so serious but at least, I want myself to be as safe as possible.