i was just fumbling through and found this , and just had to comment.
I'm not a very trusting person either.
I want to be,.... very much so.
but past history has led me to be so very untrusting.
I honestly belive (for the most part) that people want to be good people,
but we are flawed.
so where does the line be drawn, if I trust a person , and they fail, did they betray me... or themselves?
or did I fail?
it is almost safer sometimes to be with one who will say right up front,"yup Im a snake".
that way there is no let down, I know eventually I'm gona get bit, and so I just simply brace myself for it, pack the med kit,..and move on.
so again where does the line be drawn.
if I do trust some one, and yet I accept that they are only human, then the best I can hope for is that they will TRY to be true, and that I can kinda live with.

sry if this was long.

They, do, influx. but so do women, truth be told.

Wraith, I like what you said here. You have to allow for human error. But you have to get to a place where you can recognize what is okay and what is not; decide what you can and cannot control and act accordingly. That is where I am. Magic, perfect people do not exist, (newsflash to self :) we've all got our issues, right?

I have heard the story of the snake and the woman. And I do relate to your post here. Blessings, Scarlet

Nice to know I'm not alone.

If your plans go wrong,
As they sometimes will,
And the hours seem long,
As you climb the hill,
Remember,my friend,
'Tis a part you play,
You'll find in the end,
A brighter day--
It's life,
So play your part,
And do your best,
It's life.


Raymond

Alrighty, then :)